Why can women touch male strippers an men can't touch female strippers?
It's generally because male strippers aren't hired for sexual
gratification, but for entertainment and humerous novelty reasons.
Therefore the intent behind wanting to touch one is entirely
different. In fact, in some cases male strippers encourage women to
touch them for numerous reasons, ranging from personal
gratification to the likelihood of getting more money. There's no
strict guidelines on men performing for women because the reasons
for the performances are often radically different. Men tend to
take stripping (both watching and performing) much more seriously
then women.