Where can you meet transsexuals?

Answer 1

On the internet or any other places where people hang out. Try searching the city where you live in if you have transgender or transsexual clubs. It's very common in CA and they are in Hawaii and New York. The best way is search "TS dating" in a search engine. Or attend TS pageant they usually have them in San Francisco, Los Angeles even Vegas.

Since transsexual women are really just ordinary women despite the parts they never wanted below, who simply want to fix this problem and get on with life as ordinary women, you would find them in the same places as other women. That would mean at church, work, shopping, restaurants, at PTA meetings, at soccer games with their children, at salons, and so on.

Similar goes for transsexual men. Since they are really just ordinary guys, despite being born without male parts, you would find them in the same places as you would other ordinary guys. The places would include work, places of business, gyms, sporting events, places of worship, and other places where ordinary guys hang out.

The thing here is that unlike members of the transgender community, persons with transsexualism are not members of a 3rd sex. They consider their condition like a birth defect and fix it with hormones and surgery. The goal is not to become a TS, but to stop being one. You don't spend $50,000 on up just to become a 3rd sex member nor someone who is regarded as a freak. You spend all that to get to be seen as normal and a full member of the sex you believe you are. The "transsexuals" you see in porno films are mostly not real transsexuals, but male actors who might even be gay who let men play with their male parts in front of a camera.

When it comes to dating, genuine transsexual persons tend not to want men who are attracted to persons with transsexualism. How would you like someone being attracted to you only because you have a disease like AIDS or cancer? So singling someone out for the condition of transsexualism is just as degrading.

There is a paradox in this. Nearly every man who claims an attraction to TS women really don't want such women. What they want are non-op TG persons or partially feminized gay guys, since it is the unwanted penis of "transsexuals" which turns them on. Actual TS women are usually just as plain and boring to these guys as other women. They have probably met many without knowing it. Yet the admirers claim there is a difference while TS women try to destroy nearly every difference to be like other women. So why would you date someone with a difference they are actively destroying if it is that difference that turns you on? To date an actual transsexual and expect them to pour out their hormones and cancel their surgery just so you can get to indulge a fetish for partially feminized men, is quite selfish, if not outright cruel. They were not born with this life-robbing, emotionally excruciating condition just so someone could exploit their birth defect for their own sexual fantasies.

Some contend that using the term transsexual as a noun has created a fetish for persons with transsexualism. That seems to imply it is a separate identity or gender from male or female. Think of it more like you would a medical condition that these persons strive to get rid of.