How to Understand Copious Relationship Advice?

Answer 1

When do you know that it’s over? Is your significant other the type of person to come right out and tell you, or are they one of those that makes you figure it out yourself? Either way, how do you know when it’s over? You would think that breaking up would be a fairly simple thing. You tell the person you’re with that you simply don’t want to be with them anymore. Or perhaps the person you’re with calls you some night from their new love’s house and tells you that they found someone new. That is not always the way it goes, though, is it? What if you tell your significant other that it’s over and they get violent? There is always some indication of whether that may happen. Have they shown violent behavior before? Perhaps if something didn’t go their way, or someone got in their way? If you have any signs like that, you should make sure there is someone you trust close by before you do the ’break-up scene’. Have someone close so that you can call out to them if you need to, or they can hear a struggle if you can’t. Even if you have never seen evidence of violence, if there are other signs that the breaking up process may not go smoothly you should have someone near. Do they try to control you in any way? What you wear, who you talk to, who you hang out with? Even without violence, this approach to a relationship could spell trouble if you decide to end it, and your partner does not want to. How often have you heard someone say, “They have never done anything like that before”. Just because they haven’t doesn’t mean they won’t. If you and your partner have children together there is an added risk of a violent reaction. Your decision to leave could be perceived as you trying to get and keep their flesh and blood away from them. This could spark the kind of behavior in your partner that you have never witnessed before. Simply keep in mind that there are agencies in place to help you should breaking up prove to be something other than it should be. Good Luck!

Answer 2

To understand copious relationship advice, prioritize quality over quantity. Look for common themes or patterns among the advice given, and consider the source's credibility and experience. Take the time to reflect on how each piece of advice aligns with your values and goals in your relationship.