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I'm the same way, but at some point you have to ask yourself...is it worth it? If you don't risk anything you don't get hurt, but are you living? Do you want to wake up one day and realize life has passed you by and wonder what might have been? Life is great when you're in love and it isn't so great when you're hurting, but unfortunately both are a part of life and we learn from both. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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I have come to peace with the acceptance that men are incapable of being monogomous and will always disappoint you. Dating now is less stressful and the thought of having a serious relationship does not scare me to death anymore. I have just reserved some restraint on my heart just for protection purposes alone and feel safe knowing that I will not be devastated if or when he cheats. Not saying this is for everyone but it has allowed me the freedom to just be and have enjoy rather than sitting around worrying about it. :)

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It's understandable to feel scared after being hurt before. Take your time to heal and work on building trust in yourself first. Remember that not all men are the same and when you're ready, take small steps towards opening up to the possibility of love again.

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