I had to do a persausive letter on this here is a part of it:
I know you had your heart set on marrying Demetrius, but Lysander is more worthy. Lysander truly loves me and always will, but how do you know that Demetrius always will too? "Demetrius, I'll avouch it to his head, Made love to Nedar's daughter, Helena… Upon this spotted and inconstant man" (15). Demetrius was in love with Helena until he saw me. He just ran out on her, and now her heart is broken in two because of him. While it is true that Demetrius loves me, he also loved Helena and now he is treating her poorly. If I did wed him, he might run out on someone again, and then my heart would be broken. And he would treat me how he treats Helena now. Lysander would always be with me and would be kind and gentle. Unlike that warped gasty-witted flirt-gill, Demetrius!
A Midsummer Night's Dream William Shakespeare's play A Midsummer Night's Dream involves, amongst other things, two young couples in love. Lysander and Hermia love each other. Helena loves Demetrius but Demetrius loves Hermia. Hermia's father, Egeus, wants to force Hermia to marry Demetrius. The two couples run away to the forest where they fall asleep. Oberon, King of the fairies has fallen out with his wife, Titanya, over a servant boy and she, too has gone into the forest. Oberon has a magic potion which when poured into the eyes of someone who is asleep, will cause them to fall in love with the first person they see when they wake up. He gets Puck to pour it into Titanya's eyes and arranges for Bottom, one of the "Rude Mechanicals" to first have an asse's head, and to be the first thing that Titanya sees when she wakes up. Oberon has seen Demetrius being unkind to Helena so he tells Puck to also put the potion into Demetrius' eyes so that he will fall in love with Helena. Puck "accidentally" puts the potion into Lysander's eyes and the first person he sees when he wakes up is - Helena. Much confusion, and hilarity ensues until the potions wear off and all of the lovers end up with the "right" partner.
Lysander is in love with Hermia at the beginning of the play but cannot marry her because her father will not consent. Demetrius is also sort of in love with her but cannot marry her because she refuses to marry him.
Hermia told her. "Take comfort. He [Demetrius] no more shall see my face. Lysander and myself shall fly this place." Lysander tells her as well. "Helen, to you our minds we will unfold."
Hermia has no interest in marrying Demetrius even though her father wants it and Demetrius wants it for much of the play. She speaks her mind freely before her father and is scornful with Demetrius who she suspects of doing away with Lysander. But surely it doesn't make her self-centered to know what she wants and to insist on it. She is understanding and supportive of Helena's bid for Demetrius' love. She has every concern for her friend (until she suspects her of stealing Lysander away). She is much less self-centered than her friend Helena.
Hermia is in love with Lysander, but her best friend is Helena. Hermia tells Helena that she plans to elope with Lysander, but Helena passes the message on to Demetrius. Not a very good best friend, then.
A "love triangle" is when three people are involved with each other, either directly or indirectly. For instance, a man dating two different women who might or might not know about each other.
Lysander is in love with Hermia at the beginning of the play but cannot marry her because her father will not consent. Demetrius is also sort of in love with her but cannot marry her because she refuses to marry him.
Hermia.
In A Midsummer Night's Dream, Egeus wants his daughter Hermia to marry Demetrius. Hermia wants to marry Lysander.
In "A Midsummer Night's Dream," there are multiple love interests and relationships. Hermia loves Lysander, Demetrius initially loves Hermia but later falls for Helena, and Helena loves Demetrius. Additionally, Titania, the queen of the fairies, falls in love with Bottom when she is under a spell.
Her father wants her to marry Demetrius instead.
hermia loves lysander hermia loves lysander
The main storyline concerns the young people Hermia, Lysander, Demetrius and Helena. Hermia and Lysander are lovers, but Demetrius wants to marry Hermia too, and has Hermia's father and the law on his side. Helena used to be Demetrius's girlfriend, but he dumped her to chase after Hermia. To escape the law, Lysander and Hermia plan to fly the country through the wood next to town, and Helena and Demetrius follow. Due to the unexpected interference of various fairies in the wood, Lysander is magicked into loving Helena, then Demetrius is magicked into loving her also. The spell on Lysander is reversed so he goes back to loving Hermia, and they are found and invited to return to the city and to marry each other, Lysander marrying Hermia and Demetrius marrying Helena.
Hermia did not get her father's approval to marry Lysander in "A Midsummer Night's Dream." Instead, she eloped with Lysander to escape her father's demand that she marry Demetrius. This leads to confusion and chaos in the play.
Hermia's father, who wants her to marry Demetrius instead and is relying on an old law which says that it is what he wants that counts, not what Hermia wants.
Hermia and Lysander plan to visit Lysander's aunt who lives outside of Athens to get married. They want to escape the Athenian law that requires Hermia to marry Demetrius instead of her true love, Lysander. They believe that by marrying outside of Athens, they can be together without the interference of the law.
Lysander and Hermia plan to elope and marry in secret to escape her forced marriage to Demetrius. They hope to find a place where they can be together and live a life free from the constraints imposed by Athenian society.
Theseus gives her three options: marry Demetrius, become a nun, or die. Lysander gives her a fourth: elope with Lysander.