Spare the rod and spoil the child is a saying that means that children will not behave well if they are not punished when they do something wrong and that punishment should be physical punishment, such as a spanking, where children are hit on their bottoms (the part of the body we sit on).
A rod is a thin, straight stick made or wood or metal. To spare someone is to stop yourself from causing pain, worry, or injury to another person. To spoil someone, usually a child, is to give that person everything he or she wants, or to be too lenient (tolerant) when they do something wrong. Spoiled children don't listen to adults when they tell them to do, or not to do, something.
Today, few people in the U.S. live by (believe and live according to) this saying. While some Americans still use corporal punishment with their children, which is the name given to all types of physical punishment, it is not very socially acceptable. People fear that corporal punishment goes too far in hurting a child and may cross the line into physical abuse, which is when someone causes serious pain or injury by using a lot of violence. With few exceptions, schools, for example, no longer use any kind of corporal punishment for fear that parents will consider it abuse.
This saying, then, is well known, but not generally considered a socially-acceptable sentiment (opinion; view) these days.
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. Proverbs 13:24,
Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. Proverbs 22:15
The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame. Proverbs 29:15
Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell. Proverbs 23:13-14
The popular phrase If you spare the rod you spoil the child is a phrase used by parents. Many people believe that if you do not spank your children they will become spoiled and not listen to you. It is also said about the same in The Bible:
Proverbs 13:24New International Version (NIV)
24 Whoever spares the rod hates their children,
but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.
The duration of Spare the Rod is 1.55 hours.
Desperate Measures - 2013 Spare the Rod 1-2 was released on: USA: 25 January 2013
Judging Amy - 1999 Spoil the Child 1-12 is rated/received certificates of: Argentina:13
On the Up - 2007 Spare the Read Spoiled Child 4-15 was released on: USA: 4 November 2008
Unknown, while the child extra bears a striking resemblance but there Is no credit given to A-Rod for being an extra in the movie on his IMDb. A-Rod was born in 1975, movie was made in the late 80s and released in 1988. Which would of made A-Rod 11 to 13 when the fill was recorded. Seems a little old for the appearance of the child in the film but not impossible. The only way to get a definite answer would be to ask A-Rod.
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Spare the cane spoil the child means if you don't disapline your child then your spoiling them The Bible phrase is actually: "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes (diligently)." The Hebrew word was shiavet, which means scepter or authority. If you choose scepter in your translation, you can then consider that scepter is a big stick (rod) and leave it at that. If "authority" is what was meant, then the conclusion is different.
In the book proverb it says do not spare the rod and spoil the king.
Prov:13:24: He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. Refuse to discipline your child,and he will be spoiled--good for nothing.For the love that you have for your child,discipline him so that he will be useful,and healthy.
The verse is worded differently in the King James versionPro 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
Children need love, affection and care for a healthy childhood. 'Spare a rod and spoil your child' is a proverb no where to be heard now!
yes i agree with that
There are two different schools of thought on this subject. The modern social belief is that it is a form of child abuse that stifles development. The Old School remains convinced that "To spare the rod, spoil the child."