When does the court determine when a marriage has ended?

Answer 1

When a court issues a dissolution of marriage or divorce decree the date on which the judgment was entered will be recited on the face of the decree. However, the law varies in different jurisdictions. In some jurisdictions the decree is immediately final and the parties are free to remarry if they wish. Some jurisdictions require a waiting period before the divorce becomes absolute (or final). That type of judgment is called a decree nisi. In those jurisdictions the marriage is not legally ended until the waiting period has passed.

Answer 2

This is a difficult question because the answer is going to be different depending on the couple and the relationship. No one can look at a relationship from the outside and understand it or tell you what you should be able to do. If you are ending a marriage, it needs to be a decision that is made with your head and your heart.

That being said, I can give you my personal opinion. The most important thing in a relationship for me is trust. If my spouse broke my trust, I would have to ask myself if I would ever be able to trust him again. I could not be married for the rest of my life to someone I couldn't trust. It's not enough to just love someone, although that is a key factor as well.

Ask yourself, do you love your spouse, do you trust them, can you see the rest of your life without them in it? It has to be up to you if your marriage is worth fighting for.

I agree that its a hard answer....I feel trust and communications is the answer