yes
Absolutely not. You would still be married to your first spouse and your remarriage would be invalid. You cannot be legally remarried while you are still married to your spouse. Papers "about to be signed" are not signed and carry no legal significance whatsoever. You are not divorced until the judge signs the decree and it is entered into the record.
Then you're NOT divorced. Both husband and wife MUST sign the divorce papers for the disillusion of marriage to be legal.
Generally, the divorce is legal once the decree has been issued.
If you are talking about being signed by the spouses, then no. Before a divorce is final it has to be approved by a judge. The judge actually grants the divorce, your signatures only show that you both agree to the divorce.
No. The judgment would be entered by the court. You can visit the court and request a copy of the judgment of divorce.
signed by both parties
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30 days in some states
The rights for a woman who signed adoption papers when she was very young vary by state, but if everything was done legally there is usually no going back. A family law attorney in the state where the papers were signed can let you know if it was done legally or not.
As long as you are Legally separated - have separation papers you have both signed, have proof of separate residences then you should be okay. If the divorce isn't going well or if he is contesting it then be careful - wait until the divorce is final or it could make things more complicated and used against you.
The best thing to do is to seek legal counsel from an attorney .