preparation see links
The child is one again put up for adoption to a new couple.
Through the courts; you will have to prove you're not the father.
most likely costody goes to another family member.
have a father in the home.
Absolutely.
The relationship with the child's father should be encouraged. If there are school activities for the child, the father should participate. Unless, the child is in serious endangerment when she is with the father.
No.
This can be achieved easily through the use of a Certified Mediator. see link below
no
no
Are you marrying the father?