male black widow
I think its a moth, because when you rub on its wings the scales rub off easily.
Chickadee
Certain types of flies have a clear transparent abdomen. They also have clear wings and black spots on the body.
Puffin maybe
Its body is similar to a bee, and the wings are shaped like a moth. I know it is not a dragonfly.
A black and tan moth might be a Giant Leopard Moth (Hypercompe scribonia), which has a black body with tan or orange spots on its wings.
The Cicada Wasp has a black body with blue wings. This wasp also features red and yellow stripes near its stinger.
I have recently had SEVERAL of these crazy things in my back yard. They took over my garden here in Western Kentucky. They are called Cicada Killer Wasps. They kill Cicadas and feed them to their young. They are generally not aggressive unless disturbed. Which is what I read. I have a four year old and don't want to take any chances, I am going to try to get rid of them!
Red with black dots
your face spider
Kind of like tigers except less orange and no stripes and black dots