Wedding cake dates as long ago as the Roman empire but cakes didnt have icing. The groom would traditionally eat a piece of a loaf made of barley and would break the remaining bread over his bride. It has been a custom since then but as time went on, this custom changed and cultures created different symbolic traditions.
The tradition of a groom's cake originated in the American South during the mid-19th century. It was originally served at the rehearsal dinner and designed differently from the main wedding cake. The groom's cake was typically a rich, dense fruitcake or chocolate cake and was meant to be a symbol of the groom's interests or hobbies, often decorated with motifs related to sports, travel, or other personal passions.
It symbolizes the new life that the marries couple will have together and wishes them the best of health, luck, and times to come.
It is when you hire a silhouette artist at your wedding such as Kathryn Flocken, Cindi Harwood Rose, Charles Burns, or Karl Johnson. They come and do silhouettes at your wedding, and you put silhouettes on the napkins, cake, invitations, and as centerpieces of the bride and groom.
The history of the wedding cake goes back to the Roman Empire. A loaf of barley bread was baked for the ceremony. The groom would eat some of the break, then break a piece off over the brides head, which symbolized the breaking of the hyman and the dominance of the groom over the bride. (thank god civilization is here)As time went on wedding cakes evolved into a more modern cake, it became impossible, much to the relief of many brides, to properly "break" the cake over the bride's head. There have been reports of breaking an oatcake or other breakable cakes over the bride in Scotland in the 19th century. In North Scotland, friends of the bride would place a napkin over the her head and a basket of bread is poured over her head. There is no easy explanation for the evolution of this tradition, as the principal symbols of the tradition, the groom and the actual process of breaking, have been done away with.When asked about the color of a wedding cake, most people would answer white. The white color of the icing on a wedding cake has come to symbolize purity and virginal attributes. This notion was first put forward in Victorian times. Before then, though most wedding cakes were white because of a more practical reason. At the time, ingredients for the wedding cake were much harder to acquire, especially for the icing. White icing meant that only the finest refined sugar was used, and so the whiter the cake, the more affluent the families involved were perceived! Another reason that the whiteness of the cake was considered pure was the association of the cake with the bride. Originally, wedding cakes were called bride cakes. This not only emphasized the bride as the main focal point of the wedding, but also created a link between the bride and the cake. In fact, even today, the link is being reinforced. Many couples have requested wedding cakes be made to match their color with the wedding dress!Perhaps the most well-known tradition associated with wedding cakes is the joint task of cutting the cake. Here the first piece is cut by the bride with feigned assistance from the groom. It has come to symbolize the first task in the couple's life together and is a key image for the wedding photographer to capture. Originally. it was the sole duty of the bride to cut the cake for sharing by the guests. As cakes became grander, the task became quite formidable, particularly in the early multi-tiered cakes where the icing had to be strong and rigid enough to support the upper tiers. It became a joint task more out of necessity than symbolism.Immediately after the cutting, the bride and groom feed each other the first slice. This action symbolizes the commitment to provide for each other that the bride and groom have undertaken. However, in most American weddings, this task has the appearance of a traditional slapstick pie-fight.
To wear one's uniform for your wedding or not is a personal choice. If the wedding is on-base; a military wedding where the bride and groom come from the church under the crossed swords of their fellow officers is most impressive - if that is what the bride and groom want.
The newly-wed couple slicing the wedding cake together has come to symbolize many things over the years. Generally, it symbolizes the new couple beginning a new life together and for happiness in the future.
The groom stands to the right sideways to watch his bride come down the aisle and his Best Man stands beside him.
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"Cake table" or "reception table" are the only names that come to mind.
If there is a Ring Bearer (generally a young male child) he will come down the aisle before the bridesmaid and stand by the bride and then she will take the groom's wedding band off the small silk pillow and put it on the groom's finger while saying her vows to him. If there is no Ring Bearer then it is the Maid of Honor that holds the groom's wedding band. The Best Man is the one who will hold the wedding band for the bride and give it to the groom when he is saying his vows to his wife-to-be.
dowry is tradition for many years...! gold jewelry,money, land and pay for the wedding..! both elders from each side will sit at the table and give their blessing at the brides house or at a restaurant.! cause the bride will come and lives at the groom home..!
Yes, in Westernized countries it is a custom that the wedding guests see the bride and groom off at the wedding reception. After all the speeches; dinner and some dancing as well as the bride and groom mingling with their guests it is customary for them to go off somewhere else and change into their 'going away clothes.' Then they come back into the reception area and that is when they say goodbye to their guests and the guests wish them good luck.
* Yes, the bride and groom can pay for their own wedding and the parents probably will give a sigh of relief. In these modern times sometimes there is just a single parent or parents who have come upon rough times and can't afford to give their daughter the wedding they would like and it's wonderful the bride and groom would pay for their own wedding to take the burden off their parents. Big, medium or small weddings are all wonderful and each one can still be a magical event for the bride and groom as well as the guests.