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Leave him before he sucks the life right out of you, and don't ever give him any of your money, he'll take it all. He will run your credit to the ground, and he will spend all his money on lawyers, or himself, rather than give it you. He will even go bankrupt, thinking this will stop you from suing him. He will demand everything you own from you, and literally try to put you on the street, because he believes that is where he found you. You are a nothing to him, just a source of supply. If he doesn't get his way, he will first try to act on your sympathy, if that doesn't work, he will try to dominate you, he will twist the truth around and blame you for everything bad that has happened to him. He will accuse you of horrendous things, he will act like the victim, and if that doesn't work, he will resort to violence. He will hit you when you are not looking, he will walk by you and push you off balance, he will slap you upside the head, punch you in the temple area, hoping to kill you! Hoping that one blow will do it. My husband punched me in the side of the head with his fist while I was drivingl. I just missed hitting a pole head on by mere inches. My dog came flying to the front seat. When I told him to get out of the truck, he laughed, got out. The next morning when he got home, he began pounding on the windows demanding I let him in or he was going to kill me, he even tried to break off the deadbolt on the door, thank God for steel doors.
In my experience a narcissistic personality disordered mother does more than simply take pleasure in her children not getting along. Just like everything else, this is all about her. The children have the rigid dysfunctional family roles, including the golden child and scapegoat.
The narcissistic mother will divide and conquer in order to manipulate and control the whole family. She wants to be the hub in the middle with all of the attention, too.
As is well established in alcoholic family systems, the golden child and scapegoat are often pitted against one another. The other children may also be encouraged or rewarded for abusing the scapegoat child.
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Does a narcissistic mother take pleasure in her children not getting along?
Some do. It depends on how she has the family roles set up and where she's getting her narcissistic supply from.
Can the narcissist ever become himself and he is a narcissist and so is his mother he seems to look to her for acceptance can he change if she accepts him?
I don't think so. How can change occur in narcissist whose mother is a narcissist as well, even if she accepts him? The very sickness comes from that lack of emotional support given by the mother at the most crucial time, birth. My mother in law has damaged my husband so much that because he is a product of his environment, he had dished out his madness upon me and his children. Sadly, I am the one who had the mental breakdown and has suffered so much. Is there really help for a narcissist?
How do you deal with a narcissist mother?
You keep reminding her that you are her child after all. Tell her that you are updated version of her!
Is it important to tell your ex that you are getting married?
NO - however, if you do have children with your ex it may be in the children best interest to mention it to the mother so they are aware.
How do you know if your mother is a narcissist?
Answer How do you want us to answer this question, you haven't supplied us with anything that would lead us to think she is sick or not. Can you include somethings that she does to make you think she's a narcissist?
Is Pleasure P from Pretty Ricky getting married?
Yes, Pleasure P (Marcus Cooper) was married in 2015. On February 2, 2015 he married Railey Smith, the mother of his son Marcus Cooper Jr. (born 2014), known as "Cus-Cus."
What happens to the children if the mother is deceased and the father is in jail and is getting deported?
Same as if he was not in jail or being deported. If they are not together, the children go to her family or foster care.
Why did jack run home to his mom after he fell down and broke his crown?
Jack ran home to his mother after he fell down and broke his crown because that is what children do. Children look to their mother to help them to feel better when getting injured.
How can I have my crazy Narcissist mother committed as she had soemthing to do with my father's death?
See an Elder Care lawyer IMMEDIATELY and do what they suggest.
Who is the mother of Oedipus's children?
Jocasta, Oedipus' mother is the mother and grandmother of Oedipus' children.
How can you make the son understand that his mother is a narcissist?
Unless she has been labeled a narcissist by a psychiatrist/psychologist then you have no right to discuss her as being one. You didn't mention how old your son is, but whether very young or in his teens you have no right to form your opinions on him. To him she is his mother and always will be. If you want to sever all ties with your son then just keep up the name-calling against his mother.
How do you deal with grown children who have witnessed a fathers narcissist behavior but expect their mother to stay with him because breaking up the family is now your fault and too painful to accept?
Offer the option to the Father. Tell him stop his attitude because it is affecting your relationship.
