It's all about them and they take what they need and then become bored. They could have one or more women on the side. Don't forget, women can be narcissistic as well. They will leave, but often come back and love to know they still have control over their VICTIM!
AnswerIt's part of the sick and twisted process of build you up suck you dry and kick you to the curb once they've got what they want from you or maybe they've found someone else that can give them more of that good ol' suppy that they are constantly looking for...leave if you haven't already, get some counselling, it's not your fault, they are very very charming!! They will have you think that there is something wrong with you but its the N that has the problem!! answerActually the N starts the devaluation process from the very beginning. Everything he says and does is a fabrication designed to reel you in. Where others look for compatibility and a give in take in relatinships, an N is out for blood, looking for vulnerabilites and weaknesses inthe other that he can exploit.to ensure future narcissistic supply is available when needed.
Power, they will let you go when they have achieved their goal of self satisfaction, then move on.
Anyone could do either - in the view of many narcissists everyone else is there to flatter and supply them with what they need emotionally. You can go from being overvalued if you are doing this 'pumping up' to being apparently hated and put down viciously (often behind your back too) as soon as you don't do what they feel you should be doing.
you can with the key!
You ask THEM what they would need to see in you, or in the conditions of your trip, in order for them to feel comfortable agreeing to it. Then you set about supplying those terms. If you cannot supply those terms in the time frame you have envisioned, at least you know what you need to work towards so that at some point in the future, they will let you go.
maybe coz u shared a part of your life with them. And its not that easy to let someone go. It happened with me, and i still cant let him go, even though i know i love him and he ignores me
Men cannot let things go because they always want to have their way; so until it is done, they will not quit pressing on.
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That your are still in a physical connection with him and you cannot let go and maybe he is the one meant for you.
Gravity cannot let go suddenly. Gravity is a fundamental force that is always present and acts on all objects with mass. It is not something that can be turned off or released in an abrupt manner.
It's "let go of".
Sometimes. I would see if they would go to counseling. You bet they do! Don't hold your breath that counseling will help. Narcissists are notoriously resistant to therapy.