Yes! Thing is they are tricky. They can devalue you behind your back. Mine even went as far as to try to devalue me to my own friends. Thing is they devalue you from the very beginning they just don't do it to your face they do it behind your back. Only when your in their trap do they start doing it to you.
Yes absolutely! A narcissist will be wonderful for a short while at the beginning often mixed with some not so nice to set you reeling then accompany that again with a bit more nice just to keep you confused. no doubts you have been placed on a pedestal at some point, he put you there only to knock you off it, its all about the power to be able to do that and what do we do?
Communal rewards
YES
YES. They devalue the relationship to feel better about themselves. yes
Yes.
Not always. This varies from individual to individual.
yes maybe....
yes. in their own selfish way. they are always the victim.
Always. Narcissists never admit to being wrong - even when they are.
This is the correct spelling. Narcissists.
Narcissists who not adjusting adequately or appropriately to the environment or situation.
Devalue means to reduce the value.
Narcissists do NOT fear abandonment - they fear being without "supply" and not in total control.