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People with Asperger's disorder tend to lack, or may be deficient in, what is called "Theory of Mind."

According to Wikipedia, Theory of mind is the ability to attribute mental states--beliefs, intents, desires, pretending, knowledge, etc.--to oneself and others and to understand that others have beliefs, desires and intentions that are different from one's own. The Wikipedia article on the subject is provided in a link following this response.

Tony Attwood gave an example of a little boy whose mother asked why he did not tell her he loved her. The boy pointed out that a couple of years ago he had told her that, not understanding that she wanted repetition of the statement, despite the fact that nothing had changed since he first said it. I also heard of a husband whose wife explained that he was supposed to give flowers on Valentine's Day to show that he cared about her, so he did--but it was the same bouquet choice every year, since she seemed so happy with it the first time and he wanted to make her equally happy each year.

It is not that people with Asperger's disorder are selfish, or that they do not care; it is that they do not always understand what others expect and/or desire. Also, they take your statements more literally than others without the condition. Thus, you often have to explain the true meaning of responses, such as the appreciative, "Oh, you shouldn't have!" For unless the true meaning of that response has been explained to them, they will attempt to make you happy by never doing it again.

Autism is a spectrum, and no two members of it are the exact same. Not by a long shot.

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