Holden Caulfield, the protagonist of "The Catcher in the Rye," is fearful of the idea of getting old. He is apprehensive about losing his innocence, individuality, and sense of authenticity that comes with adulthood. Holden expresses a desire to preserve the purity and naivety of childhood, as he sees the corruption and phoniness of the adult world.
Well catcher of the rye isn't anyone's name in the book...so I'm guessing you are talking about Holden Caulfield? If you are, then no, he did not want to grow up. He felt that growing up would destroys innocence, and that adults are phony (as he says multiple times in the book.) He wants to be the Catcher in the Rye, which is a person that stopped kids from losing their innocence and falling into the adult world.
I would love to be her friend!
Holden doesn't want Phoebe to run away with him because he realizes that she is too young and that it would be irresponsible of him to involve her in his troubled and uncertain life. He wants her to have a chance at a normal childhood and doesn't want to burden her with his problems.
Tell him/her that you would want to be his/her friend.
Holden has a strong bond with his sister. He can't commit suicide because for one he doesn't want people looking at his dead body when he has passed away. Holden feels that if he is still here and alive his mother will be fine. If he is dead Holden's mother will go into a state of depression and he doesn't want her to feel like that. Holden loves Phoebe and he doesn't want her to turn out like he has. He is depressed and uses a lot of defense mechanisms because of Allie's death and if he died Pheobe would turn out to be like him.
Once you start being comfortable and more open with people, you tend to want to go to them for just that, comfort. If you start telling people your life experience, and they reassure you and make you feel safe then the emotional attachment can pursue.
Well the last thing I would want to tell my friend was that i hated them.
no but i would no but i would
Yes, yes I will. I would love to be your friend. After all. You are very cool.
WELL IF SHE/HE WOULD TEASE YOU THEN THATS NOT A FRIEND!
Yes, yes I will. I would love to be your friend. After all. You are very cool.