Okonkwo disowns Nwoye after he joins the Christians, claiming Nwoye is no longer his son, no longer his children's brother. Okonkwo tells his children, "You have all seen the abomination of your brother."
Nwoye had converted to Christianity, forsaking the gods of his father and his father before him.
Ezinma was Nwoye's half sister. Both of them share the father of Okonkwo, but Ezinma's mother is Ekwefi; Nwoye's mother is Okonkwo's first wife.
Nwoye initially felt fear and intimidation in response to Okonkwo's confrontations. However, as time passed, Nwoye began to distance himself from his father's harshness and eventually disassociated himself from Okonkwo and his beliefs.
The book does not say this explicitly until Nwoye joins the Christians, when Okonkwo calls him an abomination. However, Okonkwo often wishes that Nwoye was stronger, saying that at his age, he should already have impregnated a wife and taken a farm. Okonkwo also wishes that Nwoye were as strong a wrestler as Obierika's child, Okafo.
Okonkwo expects Nwoye to grow up to be a strong and successful man who will follow in his footsteps and become a respected member of the tribe. He wants Nwoye to embody traditional masculine values and be a reflection of his own ideals of manhood.
Okonkwo was disturbed by Nwoye's decision to convert to Christianity because it went against their traditional Igbo beliefs and customs. Okonkwo saw Nwoye's actions as a betrayal of their cultural heritage and a sign of weakness. Additionally, Nwoye's conversion meant that he was turning away from his father's authority and control.
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Okonkwo's harsh and critical attitude towards Nwoye pushes him away and creates a strained relationship. Nwoye feels unloved and unworthy in his father's eyes, leading him to seek acceptance elsewhere. This dynamic ultimately leads to Nwoye leaving his traditional upbringing and embracing the missionaries' teachings.
Nwoye is Okonkwo's first son, and serves as a contrast to the manliness of the Igbo his father exemplifies. Nwoye's like for the feminine, in particular the stories his mother tells, causes him to not relate well with his father. Further, Okonkwo expects him to be as strong as he was, and to have taken a woman by now, but he is not as strong, and has not yet taken a woman. Okonkwo fears that Nwoye will be like his grandfather Unoka, who was a lazy drunkard debtor and tied without title or property.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye when he converts to Christianity. Okonwko originally assaults Nwoye when told of Nwoye's association with the Christians, resulting in Nwoye leaving the compound and joining the Christians.
Okonkwo initially felt that Ikemefuna had a positive influence on Nwoye, as he saw his son becoming more masculine and courageous. However, when Ikemefuna was killed, Okonkwo felt conflicted as he cared for the boy and realized the impact his death had on Nwoye. Ultimately, Nwoye's relationship with his father suffered as he became disillusioned with Okonkwo's violent ways.