Ezinma is Okonkwo's favorite daughter, born to his favorite wife, Ekwefi. Ezinma can be brash and aggressive, but especially after Nwoye's defection to Christianity, Okonkwo appreciates her presence. Okonkwo wishes she had been born a boy, as she is a very practical person in terms of the Igbo ways, knowing to marry in Umuofia as opposed to Mbanta as one example.
Ezinma was an ogbanje child and Ekwefi is her mother. Since an ogbanje child is on whom dies but comes back to cause the mother pain, this shows that this was what Ezinma was supposed to do. Ezinma is the only child Ekwefi had and this was why. Because she is the only child, Ezinma and Ekwefi are very close.
Chielo is the priestess of the Oracle of the Hills and Caves in the village. She has a special relationship with Ekwefi, who is Okonkwo's second wife, because she is close to Ekwefi's daughter, Ezinma. Chielo often visits Ekwefi's compound to take Ezinma on spiritual journeys.
Ekwefi was the Crystal of Beauty in her youth, as was her daughter Ezinma.
Motherhood is an important part to a woman in Igbo society. Ekwefi's nine other children had died
Ezinma was the only one of nearly a dozen of Ekwefi's children that survived past early childhood. Ekwefi treasures her deeply. Ezinma shares her mother's beauty when she grows up, even sharing the same nickname, the "Crystal of Beauty." They enjoy trading stories and singing to each other.
As her mother, Ekwefi gives Ezinma numerous things to eat including:CassavaYam (pottage, mashed)Soup (bitter-leaf, egusi)BrothFishEggsFowl (Chicken?)Green VegetablesBeansLocustsBeancakes from ChieloGoatLeafs (possibly from green vegetables)
In Chinua Achebe's novel "Things Fall Apart," it is Okonkwo who follows Chielo and Ezinma during their journey to the Oracle. Okonkwo is Ezinma's father and he accompanies them to the shrine to ensure Ezinma's safety.
While her mother Ekwefi initially pampers Ezinma, it could be said that Okonkwo treats her with greater respect than the rest of his children.
Although not specifically mentioned, it can be guessed that Ekwefi is Okonkwo's favourite wife.Okonkwo originally wanted to take Ekwefi for his first wife, but he did not have enough money to pay for her dowry at the time.
Okonkwo's second wife is Ekwefi, mother of Ezinma. Okonkwo originally wished to have Ekwefi as his first wife, but he could not afford the dowry at the time. Ekwefi ran away from her first husband to be with Okonkwo.
Ekwefi is Okonkwo's second wife in Chinua Achebe's novel "Things Fall Apart." She angers Okonkwo by disobeying his orders not to participate in the wrestling match for her daughter, Ezinma. Despite his wishes, she ignores Okonkwo's command and attends the match, leading to a heated argument between them.
It is probably a genetic trait. It may be inferred that Ekwefi was similar to Ezinma in this respect. The combination of Ekwefi and Okonkwo produced a child who was less likely to survive during infancy and early childhood due to susceptibility to illness, but would grow up well and beautiful if they survived.