Elizabeth's change of heart towards Darcy was influenced by several events, including his honest letter revealing Wickham's true character and his acts of kindness towards her family during Lydia's scandal. She also witnesses Darcy's humility and genuine efforts to improve himself, which gradually lead her to see his true worth.
We may assume with the greatest confidence, that Darcy held a very low opinion of Mrs Bennet on seeing her for the first time. Indeed, such was his perception of almost all the company present at the first ball in the novel, where Austen initially presents his character which appears proud and disagreeable; in Darcy's view, everyone who resided in and around Longbourn and Meryton were undeserving of his attention.
Early on in Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth overhears a comment about herself said by Mr. Darcy, and she takes offence. This sets her up to be prejudiced, and so she if unable to judge Darcy properly, leading her to view things he subsequently says in a bad light.
Her bad impression is worsened when she learns that Darcy has refused to abide by his own father's wishes to provide Mr. Wickham with a job as a clergyman. This is caused, however, by a lie told by Wickham himself, who is an unscrupulous fortune hunter, and who spreads the lie for his own advantage.
Later, Elizabeth learns that Darcy has separated her sister Jane from the man Jane was interested in, Mr. Bingley. Needless to say, she is furious at this.
Elizabeth learns the truth and learns that she has misjudged Mr. Darcy, all of which is central to the meaning of the book.
When Elizabeth realised that Darcy had paid for Lydia and Wickham's wedding out of his own funds, she started to change her mind.
Also, when Elizabeth and the Gardiners stop in on Pemberley, he is a kind and gracious host. She sees how nice and protective he is to Georgiana, and realises that he can be a good person.
Darcy gave Elizabeth a letter the morning after he had proposed, and she refused, at Hunsford, in Kent. The purpose of the letter was to defend himself from the accusations she had made against him as she rejected him.
Darcy's letter causes Elizabeth to reflect on the things she thinks about both him and Wickham. She comes to the conclusion that Wickham is untrustworthy and Darcy is not as bad as she had thought.
Elizabeth feels grateful to Darcy because he helps facilitate her sister's happiness by intervening in the relationship between Jane and Bingley, despite his own reservations about their match. Additionally, she appreciates his willingness to admit his mistakes and change his behavior, ultimately proving his love and commitment to her.
Elizabeth told Darcy that she didn't want to marry him
Elizabeth was offended by Mr. Darcy at the Merryton Ball because she felt he was acting snobbish by refusing to dance with any of the ladies at the ball. Also, he made a comment to Mr. Bingley which Elizabeth overheard in which he basically said she was plain and that Jane was more attractive.
Lady Catherine told Elizabeth that she disapproved of her engagement to Mr. Darcy and insisted that she break it off. She also made it clear that she expected Elizabeth to obey her and marry a more suitable match of her choosing.
Lydia Bennet's crisis in "Pride and Prejudice" occurs when she elopes with Mr. Wickham, causing scandal and disgrace for her family. This event threatens her reputation and the social standing of her family, requiring intervention from Mr. Darcy to save Lydia's reputation by arranging a marriage with Wickham.
Matthew Macfadyen portrayed Mr. Darcy in the 2005 film adaptation of "Pride and Prejudice," not the 2008 version.
Darcy feels relief that Elizabeth is standing up for herself and being honest with Lady Catherine. He also admires her intelligence and independence in handling the situation. Despite the initial shock, he ultimately sees her strong character in a positive light.
She saw many love
Mr. Darcy's lines that suggest he is questioning his judgment and falling in love with Elizabeth are: "In vain I have struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you."
Elizabeth and Darcy overcome their pride and prejudice by confronting their own shortcomings and biases, learning to see the value in each other's perspectives, and showing humility and willingness to change. Through self-reflection, communication, and demonstrating genuine care for one another, they are able to move past their initial misunderstandings and prejudices to form a deep and lasting connection.