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∙ 8y agoTeen agers go through this phase, the important thing is to let her know that you love her. It may also help to try treating her as a young adult, if you want her to do something just don't tell her to do it, explain what you would like or how you feel and why or ask her for her opinion.
As I said the phase will pass the important thing is not to react in such a way that you harm the relationship you have with you daughter.
Your 17 year old is flexing her independent muscles which is quite normal. However, disrespect of her parents is not! Put your foot down and let her know she is allowed to living under your roof and you require respect. It is also up to you to be respectful to her.
Get her to make a list of things that bother her about living at home and, in turn you write a list of things that she does that makes you upset. Then both of you sit down and exchange lists. Take one item at a time and try to understand where each other is coming from and if there is an amicable solution to the problem. Let her know that her attitude doesn't convince you that she is mature enough to handle the independence she thinks she can master. If some of her requests are outrageous then say so and tell her that particular request is not up for grabs, then let her take something away from your list. This is called 'compromising.' It's a contract between the two of you. Once you have done this then each of sign the other's paper of agreements and tack it on the fridge.
These are some things you shouldn't put up with:
As far as the friends she chooses instead of putting down her friends ask her to bring them home, or, if they are with her make an effort to get to know them. You can't always judge a teen because they have nose rings or tattoos. These are generally fashion statements and doesn't mean this friend is guiding your daughter down the wrong road. The more you tell her you don't like a boy she is going out with or don't like a friend or friends of hers then the war is on!
If you feel your daughter is on the wild side and is disrespectful, swears or disrupts the rest of the family constantly then you have the right to get her to counseling or, if she refuses then pack her bags and tell her when she's ready to go by the rules she can come home. Let her know you love her, but refuse to walk on egg shells around her and require the respect you give her.
Then ..... pray to God, cross your fingers and generally most teens will get over their hormonal surges and settle down eventually.
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∙ 8y agoYes well I think it is it's rude and disrespectful
Because they want the kids to be miserable and it makes a lot of noise. It's not disrespectful to a teacher to chew gum in class. It's disrespectful to a teacher to chew gum in class, after he/she says you cannot chew gum is class.
She says yes - he says no.
It's called wanting your cake, and eating it too. If you took him back, regardless of how much he 'says' he wants you.. all that does is show him that you'll always be there and take him back, no matter how disrespectful he treats you... ;)
Place your cursor in the box that says "Ask us anything", type in your question, and click on "go". -I'm too old for your teenage daughter.
Who says he had a daughter? *According to the belief of Greek mythology, Eros had a daughter with Psyche names Voluptas. :)
Here in the Swedish newspaper it says houstons daughter was rushed to hospital because of stress, says the family
when someone says "rude much" it means that that they're to overly rude. its like saying wow, you've just crossed the boundaries with the rudeness
I don't believe he ever says 'yourdaughter' though he says 'my daughter' quite often.
Hesiod says that the Hydra Lernaia was a daughter of Echidna and Typhon, yes.
Well, if this is about a parent's divorce, and the daughter is living with her mom, then she should believe in her dad when he moves away but says that he still loves her. This isn't a problem about her, then. They still love their daughter very much, but they don't love each other anymore. When her dad moves away, it is becaue of the mother, not the daughter.
No, no, no, and NO!!! In Genesis it says that God made the sun, so he is defiantly NOT THE SUN!!!!!!!!!! Oh! by the way, capitalize God, it's disrespectful if you do not!