That depends upon your reason. If you do contact the wife, be aware that most assuredly "he" will then end your affair. If you are angry with "him" and want revenge by contacting the wife to stir up trouble, he will most likely end your affair, repair his home life, and later simply find another "mistress" with whom to spend his time. In this situation, the only one who benefits by you contacting the wife is the new mistress.
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There's only 2 reason why a mistress will contact the wife of the man she is having an affair with. First; you probably want to stop the affair but he said no? Second; you wanted to get in touch with his wife because you want this married man to have a life with you, so making trouble is the only way so if his wife finds out, he will be force to move out. So what will be your leverage if you do this. Like the other person said, if you do it this married man will stop seeing you. And you don't really have to rights to destroy this woman, don't you agree?
You should not have a mistress during any year and be more worried if you will still have a wife in 2011.
Gosh no, how can she justify the pain that she gave to her husband if she still contact him. If this is what she is doing, for God sake just get a divorce so both can move on. Just like when the husband is the one that had the affair, if he keeps contact with his mistress what do you think the wife will feel? Either way husband or wife that has the affair needs to be honest, and never contact the affair partner..
not a good idea
Its rather enjoying to see a wife harrass a woman who is cheating with her husband. Most of the time its the other way around. I guess the mistress is crying to you about it am I right,she's getting what she deserves and your wife should kick your butt to the curb so you can move in with the mistress. You and your mistress deserve each other, maybe your wife will find a man who really cares about her. ANSWER: Or we could turn it around, the mistress is the one harassing the wife..
You should be thinking more about what you should buy your wife or partner.
yes
No, keep cheating and dont get caught.
He probably cares about her but she should remember that she is his second choice. Otherwise she would be his wife and not his mistress.
The husband may be able to press stalking charges, if he has asked her to stay away.
You will be in a lot of trouble with both the wife and the mistress, and possibly the police.
Is she in love or lust? If he is cheating on his wife for the mistress. Chances are he'll get another mistress if she becomes his 2nd wife. Drop him and find someone who will be faithful to the women he makes commitments to.
A man who has cheated on his wife with a mistress and then does it again with you, is a man who is motivated by lust, and who will never be sexually faithful to anyone. If he should ever tell you that he intends to leave his wife and marry you instead, don't believe him.