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  • Vows were taken in a marriage to love and honor and the couple are expected to stay together for the rest of their lives. When a spouse cheats they break this bond of trust and it is extremely difficult to gain back if the spouse being cheated on doesn't ask for a divorce first. Cheating is sleazy; selfish and hurts not only the husband or wife; but any children they have and perhaps members of both sides of the family. When a spouse cheats they are not only cheating, but they are lying to their spouse.
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  • Anyone that cheats has no backbone to face the person they are cheating on. Cheaters want it all. They haven't got the fortitude to tell the truth to their girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse because they are using them; if the relationship they are going to be in does not work out then they can go back to the life they had with their partner. Cheating ruins the trust in a marriage because the person cheating has broken that strong bond of trust and they lied and cheated which cuts deeply into the heart of the one they are suppose to love and are cheating on. If the person has cheated only once that can be human nature for some and a mistake and the first time cheater will realize that mistake and earn the trust back from their mate (if possible.) However, those that continue to cheat are never to be trusted and their mate should walk away and not look back.
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