Why can't you stop loving a married man?

Answer 1

Usually people that seek out married people like the game of "winning over" that person and also these people are afraid of real committment. It's easy to go out with a married man because deep inside you know you'll have fun, keep the magic in your relationship (but only for so long until he grows tired of you ... and he will) then to be mature and have a relationship with someone who is single and actually work for the relationship that you want. You love this man simply because you can't have him. It's human nature. Did you honestly think this guy had any intentions of keeping his promises to you? Most married men love the thrill of another younger woman thinking he is pretty hot stuff, then the novelty wears off or the wife finds out. Having a relationship with a married man is a disaster in most cases and a very low percentage ever work out. There is always that question, "If he cheated on his wife, will he cheat on me?" The answer is, most likely! A smart woman is independent and has pride, and she knows what it would feel like to have her hubby or boyfriend cheat on her with another woman. The "other woman" usually never wins, and the poor wife is left with a jerk! Start getting out with friends and start dating single guys. It would be a good thing if you decide to concentrate on yourself and ask why you feel you need to date a married man. What is missing in your life? Why do you need a married man, and more so, why do you want this guy when it's obvious he had his fling with you and has gone back to his wife or onto another woman? All of us makes mistakes during our lives and hopefully we learn from them. Give it time, the hurt goes away. You'll meet someone new (hopefully single) and be glad you didn't settle for second best.

Answer 2

What Would Stop Me Would Be To Put Myself In His Wifes Shoes. Just Thing What If That Was You And There Was a Women That Loved Your Husband. Just Don't Ruin Their Relationship.