There are a number of things that a woman can do to protect herself and her children from an abuser, and there are a number of signs and warnings to watch for in an abuser. This can be a learned behavior. Often, when a young boy grows up seeing his father abuse his mother, he may grow up believing that is a normal marriage, and do the same with his wife. Some husbands, who, when sober, would never hit their wife, will become extremely violent when drunk or using drugs.
Domestic violence can also be a result of deep-seated insecurity in the husband. For example, if the husband grew up in an unstable home, or if he was treated as "not good enough" by other kids when growing up, or if he was betrayed by a loved one, these can result in insecurity. This type of insecurity can result in abusive treatment of his wife as a way of boosting his own self-esteem. Another possible reason for insecurity would be if the husband doesn't earn enough money to support his family, leading the wife to have to get a job. This can cause him to resent her for the fact that she has to work to help support the family, something which causes some men to feel like failures.
Some men are controlling by nature, which can also result in them being abusive husbands. These are some warning signs to look for in an abusive husband:
Get a court order of protection and keep it with you at all times, and keep a certified copy at home (a Xerox copy is not the same as a certified copy). Change your daily travel routes. Car-pool if possible, so you won't be on the road alone. Use different grocery stores and change your bank. Use a different hairdresser if he knows who you had been going to. Teach your children who to inform if they see your abuser. Have an unlisted phone number and make sure your family and friends, boss, co-workers, your children's school, etc. know not to give your address or phone number to anyone. Cancel any joint bank or credit-card accounts, and open new ones in your own name. Keep a cellphone with you at all times. Keep pepper spray with you at all times. Ask a security guard to walk you to your car or the bus stop after work.
Teach your children never to open the door to your abuser, no matter what he tells them. Have caller ID, and do not answer the phone if you don't recognize the name or number -- he could be calling from some one else's phone -- and teach your children to do the same. Lastly, but certainly not least, once you do leave him, don't ever allow him to talk you into going back to him, saying he "is so sorry, will never do it again and has changed". Men like this don't change, and don't ever fool yourself into thinking you (or your love)can change him.
If you do go back to him, there is a very strong chance that the next time he WILL kill you. And don't ever agree to meet with him some place "just to talk". There are countless women who are now dead and buried because they agreed to "just one more talk". Don't even agree to a meeting in a public place thinking it will be safe to do so there. Women are just as likely to be killed by their abusers in a crowded parking lot, a restaurant, mall, etc. as they are in their home. Use common sense, your instincts and all precautions, and STAY SAFE.
For more information, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline:
1-800-799-SAFE (1-800-799-7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY For The Deaf)
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