What do you do when someone you love purposely hurts you?

Answer 1

There are so many variables that could have led to a loved one hurting you, without a clue to the circumstances, there's not much we can offer for your situation/ in particular.

Some generalities when one gets hurt:

• You learn from what occurred; someone else's behavior and your own behavior resulted in this outcome. Consider both.
• We all have needs. Expecting others to fulfill those needs can often lead to disappointment and pain.
• We all want to be trusting. Learn to temper trust with wisdom.
• Moving forward is much easier when you have set a goal or goals for your life; goals that are possible. If you haven't done so before, now is the time. And don't sit back to wait for them to happen; you have to plan and do the steps to get there. Accomplishing goals is an important part of building your own self esteem; when your self esteem is strong you are less vulnerable to the impact that others have on your emotions.

I learned all of these realities the hard way. Just thought I'd pass them along.

Answer 2

* If they purposely hurt you, they don't really love you much. If this was your sibling's fault, don't worry, it's a brother sister thing. If your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband did it, then I suggest you talk with them about it.... ask them if they know they've hurt you. If it was your mom, dad, or any other family member, just think: it might be their natural personality, or maybe something tragic or stressful did or is happening in their life, and they just need some time to cool off, and I'm sure they still love you. If it was your friend, ignore it at first.... but if it happens again, and again, don't be their friend anymore, or tell them what's happening. Because someone that's mean to you isn't really your friend. * Humans are not perfect and as long as it's not made a habit of people we love can hurt us when angry, frustrated or depressed. The saying, 'You always hurt the ones you love' rings true in many cases.

Answer 3

have a one on one talk

When you do approach your friend, remember that your objective isn't to retaliate. Rather, your goal is to settle matters and restore the friendship. So speak from the heart.

You could say, "We've been friends for some time. Can we talk about what happened?" Once you know the cause of the problem, it may be easier to mend the friendship. Even if your friend is unresponsive, you can find comfort in the fact that you have tried to restore peace.

In the end, be assured that although there are friends disposed to "break one another to pieces," there are also friends who will stick by you. Granted, even the best of friendships may undergo occasional strain. When that happens, do whatever you can to mend the relationship. Really, being willing to patch up differences is evidence that you're becoming a mature adult.

Another Answer: If a friend hurts you then you should give each other space for a little while. Then if they are still mad then you should go and talk to them.

Answer 4

Just take it as an experience and move on.

Answer 5

The one possible way to do this is break up .But you should not hurt someone you love. If you hurt them ,you will also get hurt.

Answer 6

the only way is break-up

Answer 7

u just dont