It's nearly impossible to have any long term relationship without fallout with a narcissus. The tendency is to think if you do or say something "right enough", they will wake up, and begin to behave better, and this is dangerous thinking. He/she will NOT wake up. Narcissists lack empathy and give and take and are clearly motivated for "self" in nearly everything they do. There is no "treatment" for narcissistic disorders because that would mean the narcissus would have to have self introspective and believe (and want) that there is a need for them to change. I would LOVE to say that there is a chance at normalcy with a true narcissus, but there is not. You either decide to leave the situation or you stay and live a miserable life. I know this sounds harsh, but it is a cold hard reality...the most you can expect from a narcissus is more of the same.
Only if you are like the Nymphe Echo: you don't have too much of a personality yourself, you like mirroring and admiring your narcissistic lover, and you often repeat his words in awe. And you are of the selfless, servile, docile type. Just be careful that your admired lover doesn't accidently kill himself on one of his egotrips.
Good luck!
Only if you know the husband will not try and kill you
When she divorces her husband!
#1 You are her husband.
If you're married then it really shouldn't matter. If your husband loves you then that should be enough. Who cares if the other guy likes you?
Do you know what they talk about? Even if you don't, you should let her know that it bothers you and that you would appreciate her taking your feelings into account. You are her husband, so she should love you enough to at least respect your feelings and try to reassure you that nothing is going on. You should also tell her you feel uncomfortable that she hasn't told her ex that she's married.
try counseling and if it doesnt work out then you may have to get a divorce
I think you'll know if someone loves you. If your husband doesnt contact you or anything, it means he wants to forget you. Therefore you will never know if he still loves you. If he is trying to forget you, you should do the same.
she's scared she might not have a chance with your husband again.
ok so i have been married for almost a year now to a wonderful man. However, a week after we got married i cheated on him with my who i was with for 3 years and was in love with, but i did not treat him right so that is why we broke up. I thought he was better without me. I tried to move on with this man i am with now. My husband and I only knew each other for about 3 months before we got married. Now i have a child but it is not with my husband. it is with my ex and my husband does not know. i am still madly in love with my ex. I do not know what to do. Please if anyone has any advice on what i should do please let me know. I know what i did was wrong and yes if i was still in love with my ex i shouldn't have gottin married, but i was hoping that it would make me move on with my life but no matter what i do i can not stop thinking about him. I was stupid and now i have a one month old child and i don't know if i should stay with my husband or try to work it out with my ex.
Married but filing separate
Delilah wasn't married (as far as we know).
well i am leilani and i think i know my own husband so therefore i am married to Bow Wow