All these questions through the years about dating, cheating, divorce. I really have to say something. You were on a dating site years ago with my mother. Your wife found out and actually called my mother and told her she was your wife. My mom had no idea you were ever married because on your Hi5 profile you said you were single. My mom even went to the point of sending your wife ALL the messages you sent to her. So when you talk about Cheating, Dating, your Wife being ugly to you and when YOU talk about getting a divorce; I'm surprised your wife hasn't done that years ago, because according to the messages my mom sent to her, she has not been the only one you have/had been in contact with at least on Hi5, how many more are you on? Your wife must be a saint. She has MS a brain hematoma from an accident ( I'm sure she was not driving ) and you have the nerve to come on here and ask questions about DIVORCE?
You should be ashamed of yourself. I'll pray for you because you are going to rot in HELL.
Now who is the one making it unhappy, you or the other? If you honestly can't answer that, it might just be you. Go ahead and get counseling and work it out . You might just be surprised, it's not unhappy at all, you just might be a selfish person
If you are unhappy in your marriage and there are no reasons for you to stay married to him - sure go ahead and divorce him.
No. If your parents love is unhappy that should be your mirror that you will not make the mistake again. Make your marriage better than them. Besides that is your choice if you let your parents unhappy marriage affect you.
The only right thing to do is stay away because you are not helping him to see if he can save his marriage. It will be hard but if you set your mind on doing it, it will pays off..
You are always unhappy.
Although divorce is hard when children are involved, many times it's better to get out of an unhappy situation rather than stay in a bad one. Your children are learing from you and it's not good to see their parents arguing and unhappy all the time. Talk to a counselor.
Both are unhappy and cheating!
She was unhappy in her marriage
You should never stay with someone for the sake of the child. A child of an unhappy couple is worse off than the child of separated (but kind to each other) parents. You are not doing you child any favours by keeping him in an unhappy environment and it is not a good example to set for him - would you want him to be in an unhappy relationship when he's older?
Love should be first and foremost in any marriage. Financial insecurities can be overcome. Marriage is being with someone you have vowed to be with for the rest of your life. You should never be with someone that you don't love. That is grounds for a very unhappy life together.
She would have to talk to him about their marriage and whether or not they should stay married.
Glenda.
To be with someone for 20 years is a long time. If you are unhappy in your marriage and your partner feels the same, you could try marriage counselling together. Both parties must be willing to admit to their feelings, deal with them and try to move on, together or apart.