If you stop giving gifts will this reduce the love from the girl?

Answer 1

Plying one with gifts doesn't mean that person loves you or will stay in love with you. Giving gifts comes from the heart, but one shouldn't over do it. What most young women want is to be loved back; to be told every so often they are beautiful; that they are the love of your life. If ANY young woman dumps you when the gifts stop flowing then she is considered even to this day as a 'Gold Digger' ... one that takes gifts and when they stop she will find someone else to latch onto. Any decent young woman wouldn't let that stop her from loving you and if it does then tell her to hit the road and consider yourself lucky. The one main ingredient (an important one) is 'communication' so if you're short of funds and giving her all these gifts is draining your wallet then just tell her that you are having a rough financial time right now. Most young women would understand this. If you just stop giving her gifts she may feel that you don't love her. It isn't because she's a bad person, but you've created a habit and to suddenly stop it will make her wonder what your intensions are. Be sure you tell her you love her with all your heart. Just cuddling up together and watching a movie or going for a romantic walk through a park, along the beach, or just strolling around at one of your favorite spots while holdings hands or putting your arm around her waist should be enough to console her.