Hey, Im 18 years old with an 18month old daughter (i got pregnant&had her at 16) I love my baby more than anything but it is VERY tough raising a child so young. my mom got stuck paying for a lot and that wasnt fair to her. Her father is in her life but doesnt do nearly as much as he should (he was 15 when i got pregnant and turned 16 2 weeks before her birth) He's just too young to know how to properly take care of a child. I lost about 90% of my friends& had to drop out of school my junior year. When i became pregnant, my mom didnt find out till i was about 4 or 5 months. i was afraid to tell her and that put my baby at risk because i didnt go to the doctor until i was about 5 1/2 months. That was a very stupid and selfish thing to do. I ended up giving birth to a beautiful baby girl we named Kaylee Rae. Along with the normal struggles of being a new mom, i was young and really didnt know what i was doing, and when she was 9 days old i found out she has a condition called Congenitve Hypothyroidismare, which means her thyroid isn't growing and producing the hormone it should. To make a long story short, i found out that if i hadnt gotten this taken care of, she would have had permanent brain damage by 3 months. Now she is healthy and has to take a pill every day for the rest of her life and see a specialist every few months and get blood taken to check her hormone levels. So don't think just cuz your young, your avoid all birth problems because that is not true at all. Another problem with being a young parent is The only job i can get is at a daycare because i have to bring my daughter with me. Dropping out of school hurt me more than getting pregnant did because not only did i miss out on the best highschool years, but now i have to find the time to get my GED and find someone to babysit while i do that. Dont get me wrong, i love my daughter but i really wish i would have waited. It sucks not being to go out when i want or just doing the things teens do. The whole time i was in school i hated it and wanted more than anything to drop out but now that i look back i wish i could get those years back. My advice is that if youre young and want to have a baby, WAIT. Sorry about the novel, i just like letting others know how hard it is to raise a baby at such a young age. If you would like to talk with me you can email me at il0vemyle0s@Yahoo.com
No he is to young and he has a girlfriend but he is not ready for sex
You should just decide if you are metture to have a child, and you have to know or should know how to take care of a child propperly before considering to have a baby. If you think you are ready to become a perent then make sure you are ready, do a test or study on perenting and then either have sex with someone or just go and get a test tube baby.
If its your baby then shame on you for doing her with a minor! that should be on your concious! but also i believe you should adopt the baby if you ready to be a father.
Tell her your not ready for a baby. If she can't take that.... I'd say you should dump her. But if you really love her but are not ready for a baby, say you want a commitent like marriage or something.
Whenever he gets good and ready. If his girlfriend doesn't mind, he can. If she won't, you have the right to legalize the situation.
Youre supposed to have your first baby when you are emotionally and physically ready. When you are ready to deal with every single commitment that comes with it. Remember, parenthood isn't just stopped when it gets hat or boring. It is a life time commitment. Remember that.
Say, "Not to me, baby..."
Discuss it together and find out if you are both ready or if you should wait a while
I would go for the baby mother. Theres a deeper connection there, it would be better for the baby too.
They never joke. The first sign you should watch out for is your girlfriend continuously mentioning a name saying after "I have always loved or liked that name." The second not in this order as every one is different, is if you have intercource with youre loved one with protecion such as comdoms or morning after pill, is that she will probaly try to convince you not to wear one. Mine said because I would enjoy it more.
you should not be offended if she doesn't want the baby or says its not yours its her previous boyfriends
that youre crazy