Will this married man get over it?..yes he will no doubt about it. When married men do have an affair, who they are is selfish. If he is not selfish, why would he think of crossing the path of affair, knowing that his hurting his wife and maybe his kids. There are two things that married men have selfish is one of them. Second is his needs. Do you think if this married man is getting what he wanted from his wife, he will get out of his way to find another woman's friend? But when it comes to feeling hatred, I think not because they are man. Maybe they will feel bad and he might hate himself for what he did, but that will only last a few days because he got caught.
He's most likely havin an affair tell his wife
Because it is risky enough possibly getting caught by his wife, he doesn't need to add to the risk of getting caught by "her" husband.
If he does, he will be selfish and he will have no compassion.
Because they got caught. If they weren't discovered, they probably wouldn't call it a mistake.
This is a good question that do happen to lots of couples having problem. When married man end up having an affair, first thing he will feel are excitement, nervousness, and thrilled because of the other woman who is not his wife. Most married men will not feel bad or guilty, it's what they want to do. Maybe some spouses do feel guilty at first but not bad enough to make them stop. The only way they will stop feeling guilty is to go right back to their mistress and continued their sin. And the reason why he told you he hates himself for what he did is he got caught and now his wife is probably wanted a divorce. Who wouldn't right?
It is much better if the husband admits to his affair because it shows he has remorse and humans make mistakes, but when a husband has the intestinal fortitude to admit he was wrong in what he did then he is ready to try and make the marriage work. A husband who has to be caught in an affair may even become angry over the fact his wife found out and he is neither remorseful and basically selfish not considering the hurt he is inflicting on his wife and family.
yes i think she would
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
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Jocylyn Brown
No, keep cheating and dont get caught.
It means that his life is a mess for what he did towards his wife. The bond that a man and his wife have is been broken. The trust is destroyed, so now he needs to rebuild his relationship and it will take a while, because his wife was betrayed by him. If his wife still want to be married with him, he has a lot of works to do. Rebuilding relationship is not easy, specially if this is the second time for them. If only the married man realize consequences that will hit them if the affair is discovered, his life will still be normal.