That's kind of like a typical "bullying scenario". He who has been bullied, shall bully.
Most of the time.
If someone is being abused, usually 1 of 3 things happens:
1) After this has gone on for a while, they decide they can't take it anymore, and they commit suicide
2) When the person gets older, they learn to forgive (this usually only occurs in high-spirited people)
3)When they get older, they take out their anger and frustration on others, because they feel like it "justifies" the wrong-doing they wen through
Look at it this way:
If there are 5 people in a room who are all being abused, 1 of those people will later commit suicide, 3 of those people will become abusers themselves, and and the last person will be the "forgiver" (not forget. how can you forget about someone who's mistreated you for years?)
I hope this answers your question.
I dont think there is a answer to that. Its secret, kept from family and friends. Abuse and domestic violence can happen to anyone but you can be more likely if they were were abused by someone as a child, saw abuse growing up, have low self esteem. However not always. Anyone can be in this position and anyone can be the abuser although abusers generally cant be single and are good at keeping things that are happening away from family and friends. Sometimes abusers family support the excuses of abusers they are stressed, didnt mean to, victims provoked them. Usually victims are separated from loved ones, they may push family away, protect.their partner from critism. Nobody is immune from domestic violence in their family all I would say is be there they may push you away but its the nature of the abuser keeping them dependant on them. It is not the victims fault and.they may not want help. This can be extremely hard for family members that want to take them out of the situation to protect them.
1.5% of the country's children were confirmed victims of abuse in 1996. Parents were the abusers in 77% of the confirmed cases, other relatives in 11%.
Statistically speaking, rates of Domestic Violence are the same amongst all races, but this information can only be cited for victims in the United States. Many countries or cultures do not have "domestic violence" as a term in their cultural context. While all cultures have partner abuse many of them do not deem partner abuse as wrong or as domestic violence.
The person committing the domestic abuse is really the only one that can stop the abuse. The person getting abused, however, can stop the abuse from happening to them by getting away from the abuser. The number to call for a domestic abuse victims is 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).
Abusers rarely apologize, actuallly. They either shift blame - or deny that abuse had taken place at all!
Probably. Abusers abuse.
While abusers may not like to see their victims cry, their abuse may escalate as the abused person becomes more and more vulnerable, demeaned, afraid, and upset. If the abuser's behavior doesn't stop or even pause when the recipient begins crying or asks for time to cool down, this is emotional abuse. If you or someone you know is being physically or emotionally abused, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224. You can also go to http://www.thehotline.org/.
The majority of abusers are related to the victims. However, senior citizens and kids are often abused by non-relatives. Girlfriends or boyfriends can be abused by their loved one. Disabled people can be abused by anyone and be unable to defend themselves. Students can be abused or military servicemen can be abused by others. Sadly, the abuse of others is on the rise (well it is more like a case of reporting or discovering the problem is on the rise).
They have been abused for quite a while and start to internalize it. Most abusers are verbal as well as physical abusers. They manage to convince their victims that it's all the victims fault, and that they disserve what is happening to them. By the time many of them
You dont say what type of abuser, Although all abuse is wrong in the UK emotional- mental abuse is not considered a crime against an adult,even though it carries all the same risk to the victims mental health and wellbeing,In answer to your question(What happens to abusers) if they are not caught they go on to abuse others and if they are caught they get whats coming to them in terms of a prison sentence. My answer is one word, Karma.
There are various organizations to support victims of domestic abuse including Amnesty, Net Mums, Women's Aid and Shelters. Help Guide has information to help battered women and advice for cancelling bank details. Shelters are set up for a woman to seek refuge.
The Keeper was written by Jessica Moor. It is a psychological thriller that explores themes of domestic abuse and the impact it has on its victims.