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You've got to ask yourself this question: what is it about my marriage that makes it a bad marriage? Is it bad communication, poor sex, or oversized debt? Whatever the problem, try to look for a solution. Nothing in life resolves by itself. It takes personal will and effort. It takes also some insight into what's wrong and the willingness to set it right. Sit down with your spouse, voice you complaint - one at a time- give him a chance to answer and let him make an equal complaint about you. The fact that your spouse does not want to leave is a good sign. You must try to resolve your problem. Read more about "problem solving" in Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters."
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Why are some women sleeps with married man and destroy the marriage?
If were talking about cheating - its about simplicity. Most people stray from their marriage because they still want to be married to their spouse. Cheating is just getting sexual of emotional gratification 'on the side'. Sensible people dont want to get too emotionally attached to a single person because that person may want them to leave the spouse. Married people usually are 'safer' to date.
Is there any mistakes if you want to test your husband?
Testing your husband is, in itself, a mistake. If your marriage is that bad, then leave . . . unless there are children, in which case you must stay until they are out of high school.
How do you find the courage if you want to leave your cheating spouse?
Having a support network of family and friends who support you makes the transition out of a bad marriage either, however if you don't have friends and family who would support that decision, many cities and towns have resources to help you find community centers and group therapy to reach out to other women who has gone through the same thing.
How do you put your family back together again after your spouse cheated?
If your spouse has not cheated before to your knowledge then 'to err is human' and this can happen in many marriages. If your spouse is truly remorseful then you should see a marriage counselor to learn tools to communicate with each other better and to know the signs where the marriage is weak. No marriage is perfect and everyone has to work on their marriage. If this is beyond repair it is extremely important that you realize (even if your children are in their teens) that neither of you bad mouth each other and be civil to each other and realize your children simply see you and your spouse as 'mom and dad' and they seldom want to choose between parents. If the children are minors then both parents even though one spouse is heartbroken should be mature enough to get along while the children are present and custody issues should be amicable. It is far better to try if the cheating spouse is willing to seek marriage counseling and to try to get along while the children are present.
Will bad credit rating of your spouse affect your qualification for a mortgage?
Not if you don't use your spouse on the application as a co applicant or "additional income". If you don't need their income, then leave them off and no, it should not affect.
Will a spouse's bad credit affect your credit in a community property state?
Yes. If you are married and your spouse has bad credit, you inherit that bad credit and depending on the state, you can inherit half the debt if you divorce. * No, debts incurred before marriage do not affect a new spouse's credit report even in CP states. Problems could arise however, if the couple apply for a joint line of credit such as a mortgage.
What to do when you want to leave your husband who is a cheater and abusive to you but he has no where to go and you feel bad for him but he is bringing you down and you want him to leave?
You reach out for help, and you go.
If your house is solely in your name how do you keep your in-laws from entering your home?
If you are the sole owner of the property you have the right to tell your inlaws that you do not want them visiting your home. If your relationship is that bad you should ask your spouse to visit with their parents at the parents' own home.If you are the sole owner of the property you have the right to tell your inlaws that you do not want them visiting your home. If your relationship is that bad you should ask your spouse to visit with their parents at the parents' own home.If you are the sole owner of the property you have the right to tell your inlaws that you do not want them visiting your home. If your relationship is that bad you should ask your spouse to visit with their parents at the parents' own home.If you are the sole owner of the property you have the right to tell your inlaws that you do not want them visiting your home. If your relationship is that bad you should ask your spouse to visit with their parents at the parents' own home.
What does it mean when a girl treats you bad but doesn't want you to leave?
that shes insecure.
Is it bad to know what you want your spouse to look like right down to her measurements?
Yes. It means you are looking for a fantasy, not a human being.
Why would someone have a bad attitude towards their husband or wife after having an affair?
This could possibly be due to quilt getting to them. Some people don't handle guilt very well, so they turn it into anger, or even try to blame their partner for the affair.If your spouse had an affair and is now displaying a bad attitude towards you, try to talk to them and find out how they do feel about the affair, and about the person with whom they had the affair. Let them know they can be completely honest, that you only want to make your marriage work. If he or she has already apologized, don't continue to berate them for the affair, but at the same time, you do deserve answers.You have a right to know why s/he had the affair, as well as why s/he has a bad attitude about it now. Maybe your spouse is struggling with the pain it's put you through, which could definitely account for a bad attitude. Just don't let your spouse try to blame you by trying to convince you that the affair was your fault for doing or not doing this or that.The two of you need to talk through everything, even if it takes days or weeks. Your spouse owes you answers to your questions, no matter how difficult it may be for him or her to give you those answers. But once you do get the answers you want or need, then you need to decide if you want to try to make the marriage work. If you do, then you will have to let go of the affair and start from the present, not going back to the past. You can't keep bringing it up once you do get the answers you need or want, or you will never be able to move forward with your marriage or your life together.
Is placing a pillow between you and your spouse when time to sleep bad for marital relationship Is this similar to the effect of having spouses sleep in a twin bed?
Why would you want to cuddle up to a pillow when you could cuddle up to your spouse???
