How do you become the girl everyone wants to date?

Answer 1

Look at the problem from a distance..... imagine that you are the guy every girl wants.

Now, imagine a form of speed-dating where 100 women draw numbers from 1 to 100. The first 50 get to sit at tables and a guy is sent into the room. He goes to table 1 and if she likes him, they both leave and the remaining girls all move up a table and number 51 gets to sit at table 50.

But, if she doesn't like him, he moves on to table 2, and if the girl likes him they leave, and the rest of the girls move up a table and 51 gets into table 50.

So now, in walks you .... Mr X - the guy every girls wants .... how far down the line of tables do you think you'll get? Poor old Miss 100 hasn't a chance of meeting you. All she'll be lucky to get is Mr non-wanted-by-most!

Out in the real word guys that every girl wants (and girls that every guy wants) are snapped up as soon as they become available... for the very reason that they tick all the right boxes in the wishlist of any girl they meet.... they are never 'rejects' from a string of bad one-night stands, as most of us are.

From another point of view, imagine that 100 women are queuing outside a shoe-shop which is about to sell 100 pairs of shoes, 25 red, 25 blue, 25 green and 25 yellow. Now if when the doors open 40 of those women want red and the rest will pick and choose between the other colours, there are going to be 15 women going around saying "How come they all got what they wanted, and I'm left with a choice of poison-blue, sick-yellow and vile-green? Life's not fair!"

It's all down to expectations and demands. The popular is rarely left on the shelf, and what is left on the shelf is often rejected on first sight without proper consideration.

Drop your expectations - in anything - and examine what's available on its individual merits and you'll find that you may well get what many other envy. Committing ourselves to something 'fashionable' often ends up in dissatisfaction when we find it doesn't really meet our particular needs.

Answer 2

you are going to have to try hard. its not that easy, but if u want a girls attention or get a girl to like you, first try to start a conversation with her. get to no her better then if you have her number text her once in a while asking how her day is going or how shes feeling. she will feel cared for. but if she doesnt reply dont send that same message again or any other ones for that day. a girl can get annoyed when a guy does that. just keep it cool and be yourelf. give her hints that you have an eye on her, and if she tells you off then just leave her alone. and if she was wrong she will say sorry. hope this helps =) good luck! =) o and when you text her make sure to put smiley faces, that always makes a girl smile =) lol

Answer 3

being ur self... it works for me!