How do you avoid contact with a former flame?

Answer 1

Well when i wanted to stay away from my ex i just told him i was lez and i got soo close to him soo he wouldn't want be because i was annoying and another thing i was just mean!!

What that says above? ... DON'T DO IT! First of all do you want everyone to think you're a lez? And second, just have the guts to come right out and say..."It is deffinetly over between us! I feel uncomfortable around you, please just leave me alone!" I hope I helped! And tell someone right away if he gets too close or sexual around you!

Answer 2

First of all, you have to want to forget about your ex. Depending on how the breakup up went and why it happened, will effect how one should deal with moving on. If you did the breaking up, be sure you did it for the right reasons and you thought about the future. I.e. will I regret breaking up with him/her? Did I really look and evaluate all the reasons why properly? If you did not do the breaking up, obviously you two were not on the same page - this is not necessarily a bad thing. Now you have to understand how and why you need to move on - you have to want to get over him/her.

Forgetting about your ex is not an easy thing, especially if there were deep feelings involved over a long period of time. During the first week, you will regret your decision. You feel like it is the end of the world. You'll resolve to crying everytime you see other couples, or even when you listen to your friends talking about their partners. Don't worry. That is perfectly normal.

You may want to start with removing all traces of him. This may include his belongings if you live together. If not, keep all your photo's and anything that could bring back the memory of you and him together. This may not instantly help you to forget him, but it is a sign to tell yourself to move on.

After you realize what you have to do, try keeping yourself busy- go out with your girlfriends/boys and value being just you - not you and someone else. You may want to hang out with people who care about you the most because they are the best support you can have after a tough day. Do not stay at home alone, crying your eyes and heart out.

Answer 3

• You cannot always avoid bumping into a former flame. Realize the relationship is over and if you bump into them just smile and say hello and either walk by or if he/she insists on talking about nothing in particular keep the conversation short and make some excuse you have to go.

Answer 4

TOTTLAY AND COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM O HER NO CONTACT PERIOD OKAY!!!

Answer 5

To stay away from ur ex best friend you, just ease out into another group of friends.I helps just not to talk to the drama for awhile. Trust me its happened to me plenty of times.