How can you Muster up the courage to ask a girl out?

Answer 1

ASKING FOR A DATEDoes she know who you are? If you're unsure whether she'll want to go out with you, you could gain some confidence by talking to her first about something...anything OTHER than going out on a date. Take it slow. Build up to it. You will then pick up her signals - Does she smile at you? Make direct eye contact? If you get a positive reaction on a friendly level, then just ask. Rejection never killed anyone, so just go for it. AnswerOk, Apart from above, just check out her history, what she likes, are you compatible then just spring the question.

Answer 2

catch his eye and hold the eye contact. give him a slight nod upward and smile. bingo, you're in. go and say hi, ask him out. we love it when you come to us. and remember, it's worse in the long run to say nothing than to be rejected.

The guy above has a good straight way of asking, but there are more complex methods which are developed over experience.....Well the main thing to remember while thinking this through is...... THE worst thing he can do is say, No.

i hate it when boys chech you out because you have a big butt or boobs. that's over rated. and boys are supposed to come up to us because it's too weird for girls to go up to a really cute boy and say omg, will you go out with me and you reject us. how stupid.......

If you like a guy ASK HIM OUT!!! We have an extremely hard time saying no to a girl who can ask us out. Do it and you won't be sorry, I promise.

If You Are Good Friends With Him Ask For A Hug And Whisper In His Ear The Simple But Scary Question " Will You Go Out With Me " Its The Most Simple A Priavte Way To Ask (: Hope I helped. That's How I Done It. It Worked (: x x Good Luck x

These are great pieces of advice! i never heard this from a guys point of view! it would be great if the guys just did the work. we like being asked out. it would make us feel better.

It's easier if you work up to it. start by asking him to dance, or to a dance. hang out with him, get to know him, don't just ask him out because he's cute ( though you KNOW that's part of it). Build the confidence, one step at a time.

Answer 3

it takes guts and lots of it. but keep reminding yourself that you won't know an answer if you don't get up and ask. I mean if he says no at least you won't be still wondering things like does he like me or not? does he..? does he....? is he....? if he says yes, then you'll be happy. Keep reminding yourself also that you can't achieve or know anything if you don't have the guts to get up and do it. GOod luck!!!

Answer 4

Well, If you really want to

Tell them that there is something you want to ask them, then you CAN'T back out of it. IF they laugh when you ask, you'll know that they are mean. If they say politely no, then that proves that they're nice, they just don't like you all the much. I good person will say yes.

Answer

If the person is really that amazing, you should be comfortable around that person. Have a friend with you, and don't be afraid of someone saying no.

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Wait...Have a friend with you? I find it easier if it's just us two....

Answer 5

its more of a ask, and "hope she says yes" deal, but to get the courage, you might just have to jump yourself into it, once you do that, your already talking, and all you got to do it just ask her out. but courage maybe something that your going to have to get from friends, not something you can gain on your own.

Answer 6

1.get him alone

2. get him when he is in a sad mood (then its more likely he'l say yes)

3. just don't be nervous, what have you got to loose? if he says no then at least you know how he feels and if he does say no, say to him (if you want) can we still be friends ?

4.think about it first. make sure you know what to say, and make it quick.

5. before you do it, think about the saddest thing you can.

6. after you do it, touch his hand (only if he said yes) before you go.

::::::: look at him with a smile all the time while, before and after :::::::

and make sure that things will be okay even if you guys break up or he says no.

Answer 7

This type of courage comes from the knowledge that if he says no it was not going to be a good date anyway.

So Be Calm, and be secure knowing that if he says no, he wasn't worth your time in the first place.

Answer 8

Just try it. If she says no then forget about her. If she says yes then good for you. Don't ask yourself if your good enough for her or what the WORST thing that could happen is (trust me, you will freak yourself out).

Answer 9

Consider someone else asking her out and you may just be able to muster the courage to ask. The worst thing that can happen is she says no.