Some feel it's not their child and others do feel an attachment. I think you take a bigger risk if the woman has never done it before. It's hard fr anyone to imagine what it would be like to give a baby away you carried for 9 months. Hormones also do their trick and some need someone to talk to afterwards. Some families also keep in touch afterwards which makes it easier so they at least know everything is fine.
Nope, no rights to the child at all after birth.
They often get depressed after seeing the child handed over to the other parents
I believe that it is less than 1%. Very, very low.
Sue A Meinke has written: 'Surrogate motherhood' -- subject(s): Bibliography, Legal status, laws, Moral and ethical aspects, Moral and ethical aspects of Surrogate mothers, Surrogate mothers
There are many agencies you can work with to learn how to be a surrogate mother. The best agency I have found is Surrogate Mothers Inc.
15 years
Usually 18 to 30
Surrogate mothers are used more frequently in modern pregnancies than in contemporary births. Altough the percentage would be over fifty percent in modern pregnancies there are still a higher number of births altogether (when considering all types of birth) which do not use surrogate mothers.
A surrogate mother in pregnancy is a woman that has agreed to carry and deliver the child before they are first born. That is usually the end of the contact that the surrogate has with the child unless the people involved have a prior agreement.
Elizabeth Baxter has written: 'Surrogate mothers--the legal issues'
A surrogate mother will naturally produce breast milk. Since she is the one who is pregnant her breasts will begin to produce milk as the pregnancy proceeds. Usually what makes a surrogate pregnancy different than an adoptive pregnancy is that the surrogate mother has had a fertilized egg implanted that is not hers. If the woman who has provided the egg wishes to nurse her child, she will have to induce lactation in her own breasts prior to the birth. Many mothers who use the process of surrogacy pregnancy to have a child do this. By inducing lactation and then nursing their baby the many positive benefits of breastfeeding are given to the baby. What is especially positive is that there is a greater bonding between mother and child that occurs only with breastfeeding.
Many surrogate mothers provide their "services" as a gift for a friend or family member who is unable to conceive or carry a pregnancy to term. There is really no price for providing such a priceless gift to someone who wishes to have a child of their own so badly but are unable to do so. However, there are some surrogate mothers who will take advantage of the situation and use and abuse the biological parents. It's kind of like hanging a dream right over someone's head and holding it ransom until the person gets what they want before giving the dreamer what they desire so much. Usually, though, the etiquette is that the biological parents will provide the surrogate mother with any necessities the surrogate needs in relation to the pregnancy. Such things may include, but not limited to: providing transportation to and from doctor's appointments; covering the costs of doctor visits, medications (if any), procedures (if any), hospital stay, and delivery fees (emergency and nonemergency) if medical insurance is not available by the surrogate; providing maternal clothing for the surrogate; if the surrogate was working before but quit to do the surrogacy, the biological parents will cover life necessities such as food, a place to sleep (if the home is lost), help with bill payments, and so on. Also, the biological parents will try to include the surrogate in family activities, or take her out to places as a chance to bond, and also include the surrogate in post-partum activities with the family and child. None of these are required by the surrogate usually, but it is etiquette to care for the surrogate mother in regards to the pregnancy as the biological mother would have been cared for by the family in regards to the pregnancy.