Communication can be bad or good explain?

Answer 1

Let me first explain that no communication is always bad. That means that for people to be able to live with each others, they need to communicate. But communication is not always successful, expecially if it is one-sided. In other words if one party preaches their point of view and does not allow rebuttels, then that communication is about as bad as no communication. Ideally, in good communicatiion you will explain your position on a subject and allow the other party to repond. This is exactly why I believe that in any relationship there is a need to establish rules that allow two-way communication. These rules are laid out very clearly in 'Verbatim Therapy' of "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters" - see web link below - which explains how Method Acting can teach a couple to respond in terms of their 'emotional truth' and 'inner motivation', in other words, honestly. If you want good communication, you will have to learn to speak without fear and not be afraid of a disagreement or occasional put down.