The short answer is no. The only things you can do are: 1. In a mature manner, ask to go to family counseling. 2. Stop doing whatever you've been doing that caused the divorce. Best of luck. Answer No, it's not up to you.
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Keep in mind that it is extremely rare for a teen to have much fault in it when their parents divorce. They may FEEL responsible, but the truth is that it's normally exclusively a matter of what is going on between the parents.
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Wanting parents to get divorced to make your life easier sounds rather selfish. Certainly if the conflict between the parents is making your life hard, it may seem like an easy solution to the problem, but you may be unpleasantly surprised to find out that it doesn't necessarily improve things.
Divorce is tricky and its never the fault of the child or children. Adults usually get divorced to solve a problem that cant be fixed. There is an issue up for debate that adults who "should" get divorced only stay together for the children (at least till they get old enough to understand the complexity of the problems they face and to, ultimately, approve of the divorce). Its hard on parents when children disagree and its often a fear of divorcing adults to guess how the children will react to or adjust to the divorce. Its possible that a teenager's parents might stay together for the sake of the teenager or until the child becomes old enough to understand the problem at hand. So in some instances, children can prevent a divorce. But in almost all instances as well, children cannot solve the problem which means both parents would have to live their lives unhappily. The best thing you can do as a teenager or child of separated or dueling parents is to be supportive. Neither of your parents will love you any less if a divorce does occur. Your parents will do what is best for you (as a child) with their interest at hand as well. Its a difficult decision for most.
In most cases, a teenager cannot file for divorce from a parent. Family law typically grants parental rights to the married couple, not to the child, so the teenager would not have legal standing to file for divorce. However, if there are exceptional circumstances of abuse or neglect, the teenager may be able to seek legal emancipation from a parent with the help of a lawyer.
We suggest that you explain these feelings to your parents, and ask them to support you while you get professional help.
Absolutely, and depending on the circumstances. If parents help provide part of the down payment and they do not consider it a gift there should be a signed promissory note. Also, there should be a signed agreement between the owners that the parents' help will be reflected in a division of the property in case of a divorce if that is a concern.Absolutely, and depending on the circumstances. If parents help provide part of the down payment and they do not consider it a gift there should be a signed promissory note. Also, there should be a signed agreement between the owners that the parents' help will be reflected in a division of the property in case of a divorce if that is a concern.Absolutely, and depending on the circumstances. If parents help provide part of the down payment and they do not consider it a gift there should be a signed promissory note. Also, there should be a signed agreement between the owners that the parents' help will be reflected in a division of the property in case of a divorce if that is a concern.Absolutely, and depending on the circumstances. If parents help provide part of the down payment and they do not consider it a gift there should be a signed promissory note. Also, there should be a signed agreement between the owners that the parents' help will be reflected in a division of the property in case of a divorce if that is a concern.
The most important thing you can do for your grandchildren as they deal with their parent' divorce is to offer them your time. Depending on the age of the children, and the "messiness" of the divorce, your reaction and advice could take various paths. You can offer overnights at your home, where you focus on building happy family memories. You should never denigrate either parent, but help your grandchildren see the good parts of each parent. You can help them feel that divorce is not such an abnormal event, and can show them examples of people who "survived" their parents' divorce to go on to have good relationships and happy families.
No. In fact, many are pushing for teenage mothers to remain home with their parents.
Teenagers can get help from their parents through interventions or just letting the kids know they care. High school guidance counselors are also a source of help.
My parents ruined me. Divorce and custody problems moved me from house to house and school to school. My parents were good parents in that they didn't beat me or hit me. Everything else just did not help my mental state at all.
Yes, there are several online message board support groups and other websites with links to help and information.
You should seek legal advice and file for divorce. Generally assets of the couple are divided depending on what the lawyers or judge agree to. Don't tell your husband you are filing for divorce. If you need help financially to retain a lawyer speak to your parents or any other family members that may be able to help you.
In most places, a teenager cannot legally move out from their parents' supervision until they reach the age of majority, which is usually 18 years old. However, there may be exceptions for special circumstances, such as parental abuse or neglect, where the teenager may be able to leave home with the help of social services or the court system. It is important to seek guidance from a trusted adult or a legal professional in such situations.
Teenage depression is just as serious as adult depression. It has many different causes and simply "being a teen" is not the cause. A teenager may become depressed due to a certain situation such as bullying. They may need help coping with a parental divorce or the death of a friend or relative. They may be developing clinical depression or bipolar disorder, both lifelong illnesses. Parents should get help for their depressed teens.
Luann is a sweet, wholesome teenager who is working her way through the trials and tribulations of the teen years with the help of understanding parents and an array of interesting and individualistic friends.