Don't involve other people into this matter. First and foremost, you need to sit down and talk with your husband. You are right- a female coworker calling your husband for something other than business, especially in the middle of the night, especially drunk, is certainly not alright. You don't have to be accusing, but you do need to make it clear to him how you feel about it. He is the one she is calling. He needs to be the one to tell her to stop.
Could be a little bit of her conciouss getting to her. I say, what's good for the goose is good for the gander, in your case, what's good for the gander should be just a good for the goose!
It probably be considered inappropriate unless you were friends and it would also be up to his family if they wanted you to attend.
I think he is sneaking around. A married man has no business texting another woman and even worse calling her pretty. It seems inappropriate.
I do think it is inappropriate especially if you told him it bothers you. He should do that in the bathroom.
I refer to my wife, as my wife, until my friends and coworkers learn her name and then I refer to her by name. I think most people do that...
you keep on calling him.
yes it is ok to complement a friends husband.
It means you love and miss your husband.
He is suspicious about who you are calling.
her husband
it would be fine if you husband is encouraging you to. every one must have friends right? and your husband never said that you couldn't get guy friends so why not?!
Let him? As in ALLOW him? He's not a minor child; he's your husband. You are not in a position to deny or give permission to him. He's an adult who may behave how he wishes, however well or poorly that may be. Having said that, he should not have female friends, at least none that he visits or socializes with alone. It's simply inappropriate, given his history.