how to make women reach a climax?

Answer 1

Even if she tells you, she may not know until very experienced, that she has had any of several types of orgasm or "cum". Generally the set (her personal mind-set, or mood) and setting (you, her and the the life situation) must be to her liking and under her control. The university experts have many ways of "cumming": brain-electricity measurements, wetness measurements, video-cameras, asking her, and many other fancy tools. Both men and women can "cum", but it is not always enjoyable nor voluntary. If you were a animal doctor, you can make a horse, bull, or other animals "cum", easily and as often as possible. Old people and total quadriplegics can "cum" - but it is the human way (not the animal way). Enjoying and having an orgasm are two different things. For people enjoying cumming is in the head - how you feel about it all.

Answer 2

Let go of being goal-oriented. First things first, love her all over. Love worshipping her whole body, through massage and other loving touch. THEN, if she is warmed, ready, and excited for genital touch:

The "come hither" motion with very well clipped and filed fingers. If she lying on her back, knees up: your fingers in & then curl up, skyward. Do this while giving her extraordinary oral pleasure, and have fun!

Answer 3

Do it hard , deep , use your hands ..... and ask her what she wants you to do, that helps a lot during sex.

*Here's my addition* :)

The most sensitive area for a women is the clitoris, so if you stimulate it by rubbing it with your hand or positioning yourselves in a way that you will rub against it, she will definitely enjoy it. She can also stimulate it herself. And yes, just ask her what she wants and what makes her feel good, let her guide you.

* update *

i agree , also rubbing against the anus helps too , since that it has lots of nerve endings it will defiantly make her feel good ( ask first , some girls don't like men getting near it , i don't know why :S )

*update*

Re the third posters statement "some girls don't like men getting near it, i don't know why." There is a very good reason for this. If most of the sex is vaginal, not anal and you touch her anal area, or worse stick a finger in, there is a good chance that there may be trace amounts of crap on it. If you then put that same finger anywhere near her vagina you are dooming her to a very nasty bladder infection generally within 24 hours. She will be in extreme pain, and have trouble peeing. When it strikes she will have to head directly to the nearest ER, wait for 4 hours or so to get a prescription and then go to get it filled @ the pharmacy. I once had one so bad that I required two courses of antibiotics! And two separate trips to the ER! That is a solid two weeks of medication. I assure you no amount of pleasure a woman might get from having you finger her butt is worth going through that much grief. So that is why. And BTW even if she does not as you to stay away, (maybe she does not want to get you annoyed) do anyway. Anal sex play can be fun, as long as the vagina is kept 100% out of it. Otherwise it is a recipe for disaster!

Answer 4

I wouldn't suggest trying to get your partner to orgasm in a rapid manner, it's not going to be very enjoyable for either of you. That having been said, I would talk to her about what really works for her when it comes to foreplay and intercourse. Sex is sharing yourself with someone on a very deep and intimate level (puns intended), so talk it out.