yes they are I agree, I made a little survey and found that hairy guys made love to there wives a bit more often than men that were not so hairy, of course this is only a rough estimate, some men who are not all that hairy are of course sexy too, if nothing else, to some women, hairy men seem more sexy than than hairless men.
Some do, some don't. Everyone's taste is different.
Some do; some don't. Body hair is actually "in fashion" right now, so you see fewer men waxing and shaving and more going natural. Hairy men are called "bears," and there is a huge subculture of people who are interested in bears.
This is untrue. Most gay men are not hairy.
Some women like such men. Also some women like hairy men. So it depends.
Hair implies manliness or more sexual power. Smooth may be prettier to look at, but hairy delivers. It is going to be personal preference. As you say a hairy penis delivers, I would feel very sexless if I had no hairs ON my penis, not just round it, having no hairs on it would be just as bad as having no pubic hair at all, that is why I find it so strange that some men shave 'down there' I could NEVER do that, having a hairy penis to me is just as important as having head hair.
Hairy men can be attractive to the right person. Some people look beyond the physical appearance of a person. Some people are attracted to the inside of a person, to the kind of person they are and not how they look.
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it's natural. woman grow hair on some of their area parts, too.
There is only one option: embrace your hairiness. Many men who are hairy find that they are more comfortable being hairy the older they get; many men don't mind being hairy once they meet a partner who is into hairy men (there are lots of people out there who like hairy men); many men feel more self-confident if they work out and develop pronounced muscles, which makes being hairy feel more comfortable. Find a solution along these lines, because in all honesty you have better things to do than shave large portions of your body every day.
Apart from pubic, armpit, and facial hair, which almost all men have, most (but not all) men have hairy legs to some extent, hairy forearms to some extent, and at least some hair on their chests (between the pectoral muscles or around the nipples). Now, many men have much less hair than this--and some have much, much more. All of these men are normal.