I had a hard time finding this relay also. I went to the Ford Dealer and looked it up in the service manual. The fuel pump relay is the one in fuse box by the battery; the relay is located top right(green nf02) listed on cover as circuit relay.
In the fuse panel in the engine compartment Relay # 21 is the fuel pump relay on a 1996 Ford Probe ( Helpfull )
Were do I locate the fuel filter on a 1993 Ford probe 4 cylinder
if you look under the hood in the main fuse panel. you will see a green relay marked circuit relay. that's the one you are looking for.
In the fuse box, under the hood, behind the battery. It will be a green relay. Maybe this will help : http://mysree.wordpress.com/2007/12/11/fuse-diagrams-and-specs-for-1994-ford-probe-gt-v6/
in the fuel tank
it is located inside the fuel tank
Remove fuel tank Remove fuel tank
Fuel relay is found under the dash next to the clutch pedal.
Because it's a Ford.
Front seating area, driver side, behind dash, driver side of steering column, mounted in relay block
should be in left side of trunk behind the carpeting in the fender well
The fuel filter is mounted on a bracket affixed to the rear of the left-hand side motor/transaxle mount.