In many congregations the following prayer is said either before or on the day of:
O G-d, full of mercy, who dwells on high, grant proper rest on the wings of the Divine Presence, in the lofty levels of the holy and the pure ones, who shine like the glow of the firmament for the soul of
(name of the deceased person), the son/daughter of (name of his/her father), who went on to his/her world. (your name) will contribute to charity in remembrance of his/her soul.
May his/her resting place be in the Garden of Eden; therefore may the Master of mercy shelter him/her in the shelter of His wings for eternity; and may He bind his/her soul in the Bond of Life.
G-d is his/her heritage, and may he/she repose in peace on his/her resting place. Amen.
Three blessings are said on the first night, and two are said on the other nights. The two blessings said every night are "Lehadlik Ner Shel Hanukkah" and "She'asa Nisim;" and on the first night, the third blessing, "Sheheheyanu," is added. During the lighting, the Hanerot Halalu declaration is said.
If you light the yahrzeit candle before it's time to light the Hanukkah-menorah, you may light the yahrzeit candle first. Otherwise, once it's past sunset, you should wait until about 20 minutes after sunset, light the Hanukkah-menorah, and afterwards light the yahrzeit candle.
Yes, I think so.
Yes.
The "eternal light" in the synagogue is not a permanent yahrtzeit light - it is a sign of the eternal covenant between G-d and the Jews.
They throw it away.
A Yahrzeit Candle is a special memorial candle. Special candles that burn for 24 hours are used.
The Yahrzeit does not come straight after the death, but on the anniversary of the death. Therefore, if you light a candle - even one intended for the Yahrzeit that burns for 24 hours - on the evening after the death has occurred, it is not technically a Yahrzeit candle. I can't see that there would be anything halakhically (by Jewish law) wrong with doing so, but I would most definitely urge you to check this with a rabbi and don't just take my word for it. There are several online "ask the rabbi" services who will be able to help you with this - I'd recommend the one at www.chabad.org as they've never let me down yet and will send a personal reply usually within a day or two.
Yahrzeit candles are memorial candles that are lit in Jewish tradition to honor the memory of a deceased relative on the anniversary of their death and other significant days. The candle typically burns for 24 hours as a way to commemorate and remember the individual who has passed away.
The yahrzeit candle burns during the entire roughly-24-hour date during which thedeceased individual is memorialized ... from the sunset that begins that day until thesunset that ends it. When the date happens to be a Sabbath, then the yahrzeitcandle would be lit immediately before lighting the Sabbath candles on Friday night.When the date is a Sunday, then the yahrzeit candle would be lit immediately afterthe recitation of Havdalah on Saturday night.
No prayer is required when extinguishing a Yahrtzeit candle, because according to tradition, a Yahrtzeit candle is not to be extinguished. It should be let burn for the entire 24 hours of the anniversary, beginning at sundown. If the candle must be extinguised because of a safety issue, it may be extinguished without a prayer. If at all possible, however, you should arrange to be around long enough to allow it to burn out naturally. If this is impossible for you, there are alternatives such as electric candles which may be safely left on for 24 hours. There is nothing special about the candle itself, and any candle or light source that can remain lit for the full 24 hours may be utilized. The same light should not, however, then be used for other purposes.
Yes, a candle is a source of light. When the wick is lit, the candle produces light by the combustion of the wax.
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