We were planning to invite the wedding party and parents of bride and groom to a rehearsal dinner The brides family told us who else was coming We can't have them all?
You bring the main people that are involved in the wedding
that's it ...
Any additional guests are NOT your responsibility . Other people
have no business inviting extra people. If they insist, then they
can pay for the dinners of the extra guests, or if it is at your
home, just say no. Your plans are alredy made with no provision for
extra guests.