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First, even in the happiest marriages, nearly all couples fight sometimes-- as in, they argue, disagree, and don't see eye to eye. But such fights, while normal, should NEVER become violent or abusive. Disagreeing can be very healthy and can lead to both people finding a better way, or seeking common ground. But abuse is about control. An abusive husband does not want to find common ground. He just wants to dominate, and to use force to make you do things his way. It does not sound as if you have a supportive or loving relationship.
Many people still stay in an abusive relationship because they are afraid to leave or because the husband promises it will never happen again (but it usually does happen, and the husband will usually blame you and say it's your fault when he gets abusive). So here's the truth: nobody deserves to be abused. If he hits you, it is not your fault, no matter what he says. In many states, abusive treatment is even against the law-- it is called "domestic violence." You may want to seek out a counselor to help you understand that you deserve a better relationship. Counseling can be very useful in rebuilding your self-esteem. And if your husband is also willing to go to a counselor, perhaps he can work on his temper. In either case, I do wish you the best.
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Cause abusive relationship?
Jealousy is the most common cause, because it leads to obsesiveness, which leads to the abuse.
How to realize that husband's abuse is cause of fight in relationship?
Many men in abusive relationships, are the instigators. They like to pick fights, they will keep "poking" at you till you snap and get mad at you and then blame you for the fight. This victim blaming keeps wives in the marriage. If you are being abused it is not your fault and you need to leave the relationship.
How does dominance cause abuse in a relationship?
The desire to dominate, and frustration when it doesn't work, is the immediate cause of most abuse. The underlying causes are emotional problems that will only get worse if untreated. Either get the abuser into an effective program, or get out of there.
Is there a law against abusing your younger sibling?
Abuse is a criminal activity and relationship does not matter. What exactly are you trying to say? What kind of abuse? Actually you already know the answer, if you harm or cause harm it is in fact child abuse.
What forms of abuse can cause paranoid schizophrenia?
There is no evidence that abuse can cause paranoid schizophrenia.
Is kicking your children child abuse?
yes because if you cause an harm to your child its counted as child abuse
If your abused girlfriend is pulling back after many problems and heavy mental abuse from both sides and suddenly wants more space from you does that mean the relationship is ending?
"If your abused girlfriend is pulling back after many problems and heavy mental abuse from both sides and suddenly wants more space from you does that mean the relationship is ending?" Yes. Perhaps there was never a relationship in the first place just a frament of someone's imagination. Nevertheless, if someone was abused it is certainly just cause to pull away from that person and end all impressions of a relationship. Some women only know abuse and allow for it to be feed to them as if it is normal. Best wishes
Can emotional abuse be a cause for multiple personality disorder?
Depends on how traumatic the abuse is. If very severe, then it can be possible.
What is the US leading cause of drug abuse?
Boredom.
What percentage is awarded to husband?
25% husbands 75% for wives, cause wives do more
What does the abuse of aspirin do to the body in short term?
The abuse of aspirin can cause gastrointestinal problems, bleeding, and brain damage.
What can cause hicupps in hypertensive patient?
Long term alcohol abuse is one possible cause.
