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Neediness is a sign of desperate immaturity.
Try to take care of your needs without help from others.
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Poverty means to be in a condition of neediness. To have little or no money with which to provide for oneself and one's family.
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It seems that neediness is born out of invalidation; a lack of a sense of acknowledgement. Suppose a person during development was deprived of simple acknowledgement when needed or lack of validation when interacting with others. It would seem that a deficit may happen over time. If this assumption is true then one way to cure this kind of neediness may be to realize one has within oneself the ability to acknowledge, to validate and to realize. Realize by proving the logic of the subject over which the neediness is experienced thru education. Validate thru a simple admission to oneself the facts surrounding the subject over which the neediness is experienced and then Acknowledge first internally to oneself that you exist and therefore you count. Acknowledge secondly internally that this self admission is power the power you give or withhold from yourself inside. Acknowledge thirdly that these same steps you do internally is exactly what someone else might do in order for them to acknowledge you we are fundamentally all the same in this way. This is my definition of basic human interaction and is one person's humble opinion.
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It's hard to say based on that description, but "infatuation" or "a crush" or "general neediness" come to mind.
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Needy, reedy, seedy, weedy, beady,
Needy, feed me, lead me, teeny, meaty, *kneading, *beating, beady, wheaty, *deed to me
*loose rhymes
Needy rhymes with greedy :)
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Verbs: need, needs, needing, needed
Nouns: need, needs, neediness, needfulness, needlessness, needing (gerund)
Adjectives: needy, needed, needful, needless
Adverb: needfully
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usualy its because they dont have any. they feel alone and the want someone to care for them. the only attention they get is pitty, that or neglect. i know where this person is coming from, i barely have any close friends. -lone wolf
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Perhaps; but if you go about it slowly and gradually, it is much less likely. Tauruses tend to get annoyed when their spouses demand things that they do not have or cannot easily attain. However, Tauruses DO have lots of love to give, so I say go for it!
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You can certainly do whatever it is you want however, if you are not over your ex take time for yourself and allow yourself the time to get over him, sort out your feelings. Jumping into another relationship (rebound) or dating is really not the answer. Having friends is always good as long as you are doing so for the friendship and not for your own selfish reasons of filling a void. Just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean you need one right away or find someone to be with - deal with your neediness and enjoy being alone with yourself, your independence it is a great trait that guys do like not the neediness.
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The best way to deal with a narcissistic mother-in-law is to "kill her with kindness." This method works on most people, by the way. Be as nice and polite as you can possibly be but don't engage her more than you absolutely have to. Remain calm and don't feed into her narcissism and neediness.
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They could be withdrawing due to lack of sufficient 'juice' from the current relationship. They cannot stand neediness/weakness and lack empathy, so if you follow the 'normal' course in a relationship and ask for assurance, this could cause them to withdraw/breakup. (At least in my case) Good riddance!
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Strange body language, lack of affection, etc. may be communicating frustration or just a general sign that something's wrong. Or, speaking in a particularly pleading tone may be implying neediness--constantly trying to spend time with someone, frequent phone calls, etc.
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Constant companionship without the neediness of a dog. Dogs try too hard, cats are cool and like to have their own space and independence but will still come for a regular cuddle. Each cat has a unique personality, much more so than dogs. Plus they're very low maintenance as you don't have to walk them.
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Get your prioritie straight. Figure stuff out on your own or else you're going to lose your friends. Find other ways to fulfill your needs. Like asking questions on here. Also, make new friends so you can spread out your neediness and ask advice from your current friends. If they are your friends, they will help you find other solutions.
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The color pink is sometimes associated with stereotypical gender norms and can evoke feelings of weakness or passivity. It can also be seen as overly feminine or childish, depending on the context in which it is used.
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Definitely, but it can also reflect insecurity from a previous relationship, or an unsettled upbringing , like being abandoned by a father or other male authority figure. You need to talk honestly about her past, and is she deflecting these feling on to her current boyfriend. Asking for constant reassurance can bug a guy to the point he may leave . Neediness is very annoying.
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According to SOWPODS (the combination of Scrabble dictionaries used around the world) there are 1 words with the pattern N-E-IN---. That is, nine letter words with 1st letter N and 3rd letter E and 5th letter I and 6th letter N. In alphabetical order, they are:
neediness
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I don't know that you ever really see 'love' between them. Merely Ciel's neediness for Sebastian's presence, and Sebastian's reassurance that he is forever Ciel's faithful butler until the day that their contract is complete and he can devour Ciel's soul.
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Buddhism has identified 5 weaknesses common to all people.
These are:
Lust: The sense of neediness outside of biological need. The antidote for lust is restraint.
Aversion: The sense of anger and negativity. The mind looking for a fight.
Sloth and Torpor: A mind state of low energy, looking to fall asleep.
Restlessness : Fidgety and jumpy in mind and body. A high-energy mind looking for potential sources of worry.
Doubt: Self-generated demoralizing thoughts sabotaging faith and trust.
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In general, no one can appreciate or accept a "know-it-all" or "controller" with the acception of a few with that particular fetish or neediness. Relationships are about equality and give and take among many other things and to try and control someone or the/a situation does not provide that necessity for a couple. Someone with control issues or that feel they know everything needs to address this and possibly get help with these issues and what causes them to treat people in such a manner and disperse such behaviour.
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Depending on person, and the type of perfectionism; a maladaptive perfectionist may suffer from different phobias, or yet he may not suffer from a phobia but rather perfectionism may cause other type of disorders. Perfectionism/phobia connection may not be answered within a standardized way. Various anxiety disorders, eating disorders, neediness, panic attack disorder, sexual disorders occasionally were reported in connection with various forms of perfectionism. Perfectionism may take positive or negative forms in general.
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According to SOWPODS (the combination of Scrabble dictionaries used around the world) there are 12 words with the pattern -E-DIN---. That is, nine letter words with 2nd letter E and 4th letter D and 5th letter I and 6th letter N. In alphabetical order, they are:
beadiness
bendingly
headiness
heediness
leadingly
neediness
nerdiness
readiness
reediness
seediness
tendinous
weediness
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When someone says "I'm solo, you're so low," they may be referring to feeling independent and self-sufficient while perceiving the other person as needing support or validation. It can imply a sense of superiority or self-reliance in comparison to the other person's perceived neediness or weakness. It could also suggest a feeling of emotional distance or disconnection between the two individuals.
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Most definately. When someone is needy it usually is obvious someone cute at the beginning but becomes overbearing, overwhelming and suffocating very quickly. If you are too obsessive, needing to know everything of them and their whereabouts or want to be around them all the time that can just become too much. As well as constantly calling as well as trying to make things committed very quickly - all of the above becomes too much, too fast and too bad for the person. Neediness feelings need to be dealt with and possibly need counselling as it can become a persistant problem and effect in all relationships.
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How do you know he hides when he goes over to Victor's house. Did he tell you that he hides; did you ask him why he hides. Perhaps you believe he is hiding from you. If you believe that he is hiding from you when he goes to Victor's, then he has a reason to 'hide' from you. You should not be bothering him when he visits his friends. I don't bother my friends when they go to other friend's houses. That would be a rude and a sure sign of inappropriate neediness. The term 'boyfriend' doesn't mean permanently, physically joined, the most important part of the term is 'friend'. Tracking him down at a friend's house is very immature and a sure way to trash the 'friendship'.
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At that point it's mostly lung development. The lungs have to mature to in order for the baby to breathe on it's own. Also, to gain a little more weight so he/she can start to support it's own body temperature better. It's just a "neediness" factor. They thrive best at full term, but can "survive" with help from heaters/oxygen/etc. before that.
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According to SOWPODS (the combination of Scrabble dictionaries used around the world) there are 28 words with the pattern -EE--N---. That is, nine letter words with 2nd letter E and 3rd letter E and 6th letter N. In alphabetical order, they are:
beechnuts
beefiness
beelining
beeriness
deepeners
deepening
feelingly
geekiness
heediness
jeeringly
leeriness
leeringly
meekening
neediness
reearning
reediness
reekingly
reelingly
seediness
seemingly
teemingly
veeringly
weediness
weekended
weekender
weepiness
weepingly
weetingly
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Most Indian mothers-in-law and sisters-in-law may exhibit neediness towards their sons or brothers and daughters-in-law due to traditional family dynamics that emphasize dependency and close-knit relationships. Cultural expectations often dictate that women play nurturing roles, seeking emotional connections and support from their family members. Additionally, societal norms may lead them to feel responsible for maintaining family cohesion, prompting a desire for involvement in their daughters-in-law's lives. This can sometimes manifest as intense scrutiny or dependence, reflecting both affection and the pressure of familial expectations.
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All you can do is be straight forward and honest - tell him exactly how you feel and what you would like to see happen between you two. As well, do so without the begging, crying, drama and neediness as guys do not like this. If he still decides he does not want to be with you then you are going to have to make peace with this somehow especially for your child. He is going to be a part of your life and your going to have to let him go and let him be in the relationship manner and be adult enough to have a relationship that involves communcation and compromise for your child's sake - that is the most important thing at this point. You have to strive forward and pull yourself together for your baby as well as for yourself. Unfortunately people do breakup and you can get through this, take time for yourself and get by this think of all the prospects for your future and focus on your motherhood and happiness. Trust me things do and will get better.
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One of the main reasons there is starvation in Africa is political difficulty that is found a lot in many African countries. Political troubles cause starvation in children and cause them to go for days without food. War has also caused neediness for children in many African countries. War causes economic and social instability and then increases a country's military budget. This leaves less for the benefit of African children. African families get food through farming. In recent years, due to global warming, droughts are common and entire families struggle to put food on the table for their children. The HIV pandemic has caused many children to lose their parents. This is a plunge into scarcity, end of education, and starvation increases
(feel free to use this for a report or whatever, but I would change it up a little otherwise it would be plagerism. u can be arested for it.)
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1) The cat spends a lot of time begging for your attention in various ways. It may be constantly in your lap, meowing, pawing at you, etc. Some cats are needier than others but it's pretty obvious when they are.
2) If ignored, the cat will sulk in a very human way and will misbehave. Having accidents outside the litterbox is a classic feline passive-aggressive trick.
There's not a lot to be done about a clingy cat, since this stuff tends to be learned in kittenhood, so just be aware of how much attention you are able to give. If you can't meet the cat's needs, you may have to find it another home. Though you might be the cat's whole life right now, once it bonds to a new person, it will move its neediness there and more or less forget about you.
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First off, be sure of what she feels about you. Have discussions on EVERYTHING. Ask where she sees you two in the future: 3 months, 6 months, 1 year, 5 years. It sounds as if you have said this to someone else before and had them run away. Usually that is a sign of misunderstanding or neediness that can scare anyone. You might need to let your actions and not your words do the talking.
Some time from now, retry the "where do you see us.." talk and see if it's any different; if it is, then I would recommend telling her. If not , hold it to yourself and decide how long you will go if she doesn't see things as you do. There are times we have to walk away from someone before they realize what we mean to them. And if they just let you walk away with no comment or complaint, they weren't right for you in first place.
Remember that the word love is a strongly charged emotional word that carries a million and one connotations. So play it safe and be sure she is where you are according to the relationship.
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You won't. Unless you go hide in a 3rd world country in the jungle you will find people around you that you find kind or admirable or worth being friends. Work on having good friends, be a good friend and be sure to keep your self confidence up; both guys and girls hate neediness, if you respect yourself you will draw that same thing from other people.
If you do something with people or one person make it a friend the best marriages come from people who are very good (or best some say) friends. I know it feels like forever but it doesn't have to feel that way, focus on having fun, being yourself and caring for other people and it WILL happen. Love is really like happiness, the harder you try for it the more it flies away. Have fun, love life and love in life will find you.
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- You cannot make someone love you. The worst thing a young woman can do is mope around or express being needy and she should get out with friends and have fun and free herself up to meet other young men. Sometimes when the ex sees you are not sitting at home moping around for him or express your neediness for him and you are dating other young men it may be enough for him to rethink your relationship. However, there is a risk factor he is simply not in love with you, but you will be the winner in the game of love because there is someone very special out there that was meant to be with you. Have patience.
- Try to make him miss you!
well first of all you have to think why did he loose intrest in the first play what made him lose intrest and what ever it is just try and work on. to be honest this might not be as easy at it sounds but most importantly remember dont make changes to yourself unless you thing you have to because everything happens for a reason . try and talk to him bout how u feel and see what he things :)
hope i helpd *
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The New Deal created relief for the unemployed. Roosevelt and his advisers launched a massive work relief program. The New Deal created the Works Progress Administration (WPA) to give unemployed Americans government funded jobs on public works projects. The New Deal dramatically reversed the federal government's stance toward unions. The New Deal encouraged an unprecedented wave of union organizing among the nation's working people to protect jobs as well as wages. The single most important feature of the New Deal's emerging welfare state was Social Security. It was designed to provide a modest income to relieve the poverty of elderly people. The large New Deal majority in Congress passed the Social Security Act in August 1935. The act provided that tax contributions from workers and their employers would fund pensions for the elderly. When the workers reached retirement age, they were not subject to a means to test their neediness. They had benefits based on their contributions and years of work.
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The New Deal created relief for the unemployed. Roosevelt and his advisers launched a massive work relief program. The New Deal created the Works Progress Administration (WPA) to give unemployed Americans government funded jobs on public works projects. The New Deal dramatically reversed the federal government's stance toward unions. The New Deal encouraged an unprecedented wave of union organizing among the nation's working people to protect jobs as well as wages. The single most important feature of the New Deal's emerging welfare state was Social Security. It was designed to provide a modest income to relieve the poverty of elderly people. The large New Deal majority in Congress passed the Social Security Act in August 1935. The act provided that tax contributions from workers and their employers would fund pensions for the elderly. When the workers reached retirement age, they were not subject to a means to test their neediness. They had benefits based on their contributions and years of work.
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According to SOWPODS (the combination of Scrabble dictionaries used around the world) there are 81 words with the pattern NE------S. That is, nine letter words with 1st letter N and 2nd letter E and 9th letter S. In alphabetical order, they are:
nearsides
neatherds
nebbishes
nebulises
nebuliums
nebulizes
neckatees
neckbands
neckbeefs
neckgears
necklaces
necklines
neckwears
neckweeds
nectaries
nectarous
needfires
neediness
needlings
needments
nefandous
nefarious
negations
negatives
negatrons
negligees
negresses
negroisms
neighbors
nematodes
nennigais
nenuphars
neoblasts
neologies
neomorphs
neomycins
neopagans
neophiles
neophobes
neophytes
neoplasms
neoprenes
neotenies
neotenous
neoterics
neotoxins
nepenthes
nephrisms
nephrites
nephritis
nephroses
nephrosis
nepotisms
nepotists
nerdiness
nerveless
nervelets
nerviness
nescients
nestlings
netheless
netspeaks
neuraxons
neuritics
neuropils
neurotics
neutrinos
newcomers
newlyweds
newnesses
newsbeats
newscasts
newsdesks
newsgirls
newshawks
newsiness
newspeaks
newsreels
newsrooms
newswires
newwavers
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According to SOWPODS (the combination of Scrabble dictionaries used around the world) there are 84 words with the pattern -EE-----S. That is, nine letter words with 2nd letter E and 3rd letter E and 9th letter S. In alphabetical order, they are:
beebreads
beechnuts
beefaloes
beefcakes
beefiness
beefwoods
beerhalls
beeriness
beestings
beeswaxes
beeswings
beetflies
beetroots
deemsters
deepeners
deerflies
deergrass
deerhorns
deerskins
deerweeds
deeryards
feedbacks
feedboxes
feedholes
feedyards
feelgoods
geekiness
geepounds
heediness
heelballs
heelposts
keelboats
keelhales
keelhauls
keepsakes
keeshonds
leeboards
leechdoms
leeriness
needfires
neediness
needlings
needments
peekaboos
peekapoos
peepholes
peepshows
peeresses
peesweeps
peetweets
reedbirds
reedbucks
reedifies
reediness
reedlings
reedmaces
reedstops
reembarks
reemerges
reemploys
reengages
reenlists
reenrolls
reentries
reexports
reexposes
reexpress
seedboxes
seedcakes
seedcases
seediness
seedlings
seedtimes
seeresses
seethings
teenagers
teethings
teethless
teetotals
teetotums
weederies
weediness
weepholes
weepiness
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Actually that does not always work, trust me, my boyfriend just gets madder at that then anything and he is not one to talk out a problem and, whoa, if you ignore him be sure your ready for the sleeper hold. You just have to figure out what they do listen and don't listen to you got to somehow get it threw there brain. I am still in the process of it and I hope to make it work but honestly, we've been together a year and it just takes time and you have to have the patience and be strong enough if you really want to make it. If he gets mad and says hurtful things, what I do is just ignore it because when it gets to you and he knows it does he does it more because he knows it gets to you. Just act like he didn't even say that say something nice back to him that's what I do and he stops and we start getting along again. LIKE THEY SAY, BOYS MATURE SLOWER THEN GIRLS.
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This question and the answer, although well put, is so sad that it's pitiful. What is the point of your relationships with these guys? It makes no sense. A boyfriend is supposed to be a friend; if someone regularly makes you feel bad or even deliberately wants you to feel bad, they are not a friend! You should be asking yourself why you feel you need a 'boyfriend' that you need to 'get used to it'. Nonsense. I think that you are demonstrating your neediness to tolerate such behavior. By this time, hopefully you've figured this out for yourself. But, while correcting the grammar of the first answer, I really thought I should mention this.
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Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours.
Look in my eyes and you will find me, but look in my heart and you will find you.
This is an interesting and thought provoking quote by the late Cavett Robert. It addresses 'neediness': "Most people are walking around, umbilical cord in hand, looking for a new place to plug it in."
If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
You know you love someone when you want them to be happy even if their happiness means that you're not part of it.
I swore to myself it wouldn't happen again. I vowed to myself that this was the end. The end of this longing, this yearning so strong... I said I was over you, but oh I was so wrong.
Someone should sue Disney for planting the ideas in little kids heads that every girl has a prince and everything ends up happily ever after.
How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had? Why do my tears fall so endlessly for someone who was never really mine? Why is it I miss someone I was never really with? And why do I love someone whose love was never really mine?
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Well living in the same house with someone for 2 years can kinda make you fell certain ways about someone. She also thought he was sensitive and caring. She felt she could talk to him the easiest.
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Give up. Achieve closure. He doesn't deserve more than what you have already given him.
The word "love" is understood by the narcissist to mean "dependence", "neediness", "ability to provide narcissistic supply", "becoming the narcissist's extension and property".
In these - distorted and sick - senses of the word, all narcissists love to be loved...
A post-mortem of a relationship conducted with a narcissist is very frustrating because it never achieves closure. The narcissist is interested exclusively in allocating blame and generating guilt - not in progressing, developing, atoning, soothing, or concluding anything.
Such exercises in futility are best avoided.
Narcissistic psychopaths have no friends, or lovers, or spouses, or children, or family - they have only objects to be manipulated.
Narcissists have no problem perceiving ideas (many narcissists are intellectually gifted). But they do have a problem perceiving other people's ability to conceive of ideas, to have their own needs, emotions, and preference. Wouldn't you be startled if your television set suddenly informed you that it would rather not work on a Sunday? Or if your vacuum cleaner wanted to befriend you?
To narcissists, other people are instruments, tools, sources - in short: objects. Objects are not supposed to have opinions or to make independent choices and decisions - especially if they don't comply with the narcissist's worldview or plans, or if they do not cater to his needs.
No! True emotional acceptance means the person must possess normal human emotions such as empathy. Without this emotional base acceptance as you would like it is IMPOSSIBLE.
The time for the father to have developed a healthy emotional system is long gone, i.e. infancy and early childhood.
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The conflict between the beginning understanding of a truer and more accurate way of seeing the world, and the ingrained delusion that there is a separate, unchanging continuous self that knows what's going on and just what to do about it.
And then there's the conflict between the amount of time we ought to spend getting our minds clear, and the amount of time we want to spend just being lost in modern life.
Seen another way, there's the classic conflict between the easy and quick (uh-huh sure *grins*) path to enlightenment when one disengages from the world and just works on oneself, and the harder path of staying engaged with the world, society, family and all the extra work that entails.
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There are any number of ways to answer this. None are going to be of much relief to you.
But, here we go:
- She may just have been using you for immediate gratification, and once your purpose had been served, she just kicked you to the curb and moved on.
- You may have just been a passing fancy. While her feelings toward you may have been genuine in the beginning, they changed with time.
- She may be a narcissistic, and you just no longer satisfy her need to pump up her ego.
- She saw greener grass on the other side of the fence. That is she caught sight of someone else who she believe she can get more from than you.
- Like many young people, she may not know what she wants and was simply "trying you on for size."
- She may have perceived you attention as clinginess or neediness, and was scared off by your attention.
- She may believe that your "goodness" to her was an attempt to control her. Very few people like to be controlled by others.
This is not a comprehensive list by any stretch of the imagination, and many of these may seem similar. The thing is, as difficult as it may seem now, you are likely better off. Review what has happened here, and analyze it for what it is. Only you can answer the question after all, you and she that is. If all else fails, and you are not able to figure it out, ask her. Just do it by text or email.
A parting word:
While it is difficult now, break-ups are never easy, it will get easier. this is not to say something ridiculous like, "Time heals all wounds." Time heals nothing. All time does is put chronological landscape between you and the experience that caused you pain, and that gives you an opportunity to put it into perspective. The sooner you get started on that, the further ahead of the game you will get.
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Confronting someone on a topic they hold near to their heart about one you hold near to yours will degenerate into a "Are too!" "Am not!" argument very quickly. Steal heavily from Buddhism. They have spent centuries being anti-war abd have all the arguments down fo you. Tell your friend there are 5 things you try to avoid (These are Buddhism's Mind Hinderances but he doesn't need to know that):
* Lust: The sense of neediness outside of biological need. The antidote for lust is restraint. * Aversion: giving in to a sense of anger and negativity. The mind looking for a fight. * Sloth and Torpor: A mind state of low energy, looking to fall asleep. * Restlessness : Being fidgety and jumpy in mind and body. A high-energy mind looking for sources of worry. * Doubt : Self-generated demoralizing thoughts to sabotage faith and trust
Almost all of these relate to the causes of war.
Furthermore tell him there are 4 things that you try to do every minute of your waking life. These keep your in balance by practicing and maintaining a good outlook on life. These are:
* Equanimity: Holding all things in an ease filled balance * Lovingkindness: The spontaneous reaction to all beings * Compassion: The sympathetic reaction to others pain * Sympathetic Joy: The shared delight in the good fortune of others when we become aware of it A person following these precepts cannot help but be for love and peace and against war.
If he still wants o argue and you want to win, you have no choice but to study the link to the list of Fallacious Arguments appended below. Learn to spot them and dissect them. They are the mainstay of people "Wanting to tell you how right they are."
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The best way to tell if your husband loves you is if he shows you respect. He and you are allowed to get angry every once in awhile, but if it happens all the time, it's time to take stock of your situation and make a plan to address it. All marraiges go through ups and downs, but if there are patterns of behavior that have changed dramatically, you need to discuss them with him and come to some agreements, maybe even some compromise. It is also important to consider if you love him and if your behavior has changed or if there has been some trigger event to ignite these feelings for you. A loving relationship is hard work and while it is easy to judge or question another person's love for you, it is equally important that you feel you are worth being loved. If there is something he has said or done that leads you to believe he doesn't love you, stop and think about how this fits into his behavior overall. If there is something blatant or serious that has happened, you are the best judge. Listen to your gut and if it still bothers you tomorrow, prepare your thoughts and talk with him about it. If you aren't ready to discuss this with him, write down your thoughts so you can prepare to discuss your relationship in a mature way. Make sure he is well rested and approach him lovingly, not with blame or neediness. Last and most importantly, take a look at your self-esteem and find ways to bolster it so that you aren't seeking rejection or relying on your total happiness through his love for you. Know that we have all been there at one time or another in our lives and that by reaching out, even through an online service, you are taking mature responsibility for your feelings. That is a person worth being loved. Good luck.
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Under any circumstance, you should not tell a guy directly that you like him. The main reason behind this is men are basically hunters who need to have the satisfaction of hunting down their prey before they can enjoy their feast. In the same manner you should make your man work for you before he gets you. If you just hand his meal to him he wouldnot value it. The ways you can make the guy you like, go crazy for you: *Be interested in what he talks(atleast make the effort). *Find out what he likes and do those exact same things. Make him believe you are the one. *Show such an attitude which says i am not gonna fall that easily(let them hunt for you) at the same time maintain a friendly relationship with them. This will kill them that you are their friend but you are not falling for them. *Let him propose to you, at no cost propose to him Last but not the least, after doing all this even if they dont fall for you, simple think you are not meant to be and move on. == I disagree with the above as there is no room for games or attitudes in a friendship or relationship. Be straight forward and honest - let him know and aware of how you feel towards him because most guys don't like to play guessing games and chasing someone nor do they like arrogance or neediness. Be independent yet know what you want and know how to get it. Be yourself and don't pretend to be someone your not or like things you do not like - its okay to have your own interests as they will which proves you can have your own life as well as a life with them. You can inter mingle with interests when and if you like when the time comes. There is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out in this day an age especially seeing that guys are sometimes tongue tied or just too shy to make the first move and if you wait around for what may never happen the chance will pass you by. When you have a moment grasp it as you may never get it back. So if you like his ears let him know there is nothing wrong with that - have fun & all the best.
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They don't know any better you have to whip them into shape. Sometimes it is even a test, before me and my boyfriend started dating and i thought he was being selfish, but he was really just giving me that test.
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The Eightfold Path of Buddhism gives an excellent way to combat negative influences of today's world. The combat has to be internal first and then to the world by example. It is a precis of the teachings of many of the world's religions. The wording can be adjusted to make it comply with almost any religion's views. It states that we should:
Pursue Wisdom (The Exercise of Judgement) through right understanding and right aspiration - aspire to better the state of existence of yourself and others
Demonstrate perseverance (Sound Ethical Discipline) through:
* Right thought - thinking on that which is good * Right speech - being positive, honest, comforting and caring in what you say * Right action (Conduct) - not being selfish but exerting energy to do what you believe is good for all * Right livelihood - working for the good of humanity and use your talents well * Right effort - not exerting effort in pursuit of worthless or harmful goals
Concentrate and focus on:
* Right mindfulness - directing your attention to that which is good and proper * Right concentration - being actively and wholly caught up in a way of life filled with love and good work Not fall victim to the mind hindrances (negative mind energies) of:
* Lust: The sense of neediness outside of biological need. The antidote for lust is restraint. * Aversion: giving in to a sense of anger and negativity. The mind looking for a fight. * Sloth and Torpor: A mind state of low energy, looking to fall asleep. * Restlessness : Being fidgety and jumpy in mind and body. A high-energy mind looking for sources of worry. * Doubt : Self-generated demoralizing thoughts to sabotage faith and trust
Keep yourself in balance by practicing and maintaining a good outlook on life. This can be done by maintaining:
* Equanimity: Holding all things in an ease filled balance * Lovingkindness: The spontaneous reaction to all beings * Compassion: The sympathetic reaction to others pain * Sympathetic Joy: The shared delight in the good fortune of others when we become aware of it
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No, I believe it's basically impossible. You should just stop trying and they might love you if it was actually possible. We can't we force people to fall in love with us; but now that I think about it, most people fall in love with other people when they have a void inside. They need something to make them feel secure about themselves and that's when that special someone comes in and makes them feel secure about themselves. I think its all about security.
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You can't make another person feel something that's not there. Love takes time to grow; when you like someone, that's not love, it's like; when you desire someone, that's not love, it's desire; filling a need for something that seems to be missing is not love, it's neediness. None of these emotions add up to love. Accepting them as love is a mistake that you will discover before too long.
With that said, I think what you really mean is 'get someone to like you, to want you'. Yes, that is possible. If you're the right person to fulfill those desires of the other person. You start by talking to the person; if that works, you may be able to ask more of the relationship by inviting the person to a next step. Simple steps like, would you like to call me sometime, would you like to go to... sometime, etc. If you are turned down, then you don't get your hopes too high. These simple things will result in a relationship or they won't. You won't know if you don't try.
If you are already in a relationship, love will either develop and grow or it won't. Most relationships you will find, will be over before it ever gets that far. That's a good thing because there is no unhappiness like feeling love for someone who isn't appropriate or doesn't reciprocate those feelings. Dating and relationships are a trial and error process and you should never take it personally when it doesn't work. Easier said than done, I know, but where would we get all our songs if it were not.
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